Well, I wouldn't respond that way, but there are people who do. Don't take offense.
I can't imagine a native speaker saying "You welcome." Perhaps you misheard? "Welcome", in a casual situation, is okay, especially if the speaker is not much of a talker, or needs to move on quickly, for example, to the next customer. I hope I may now be forgiven if I relate something short and funny. When I ask my twelve-year-old to do something he finds onerous, such as put the dishes away, and I thank him when he's done, he likes to say, "A problem!!" I find it annoying, even if I do it myself sometimes. I've never had a good way of replying to it, any tips? No one likes to be hurt in relationships. It’s disappointing, painful, and overwhelming. It can feel rejecting, isolating, and confusing. And yet, it happens. Part of being in relationships is getting hurt. (I know, this is not a fun thing to think about. But it’s true and important, so we are talking about it.) Know that when I talk about “relationships,” I am referring to all kinds of relationships, not just romantic ones. Relationships with neighbors, friends, parents, bosses, siblings, coworkers, children, and in-laws. Relationships involve two, imperfect human beings, which means we sometimes let one another down. This hurt and disappointment is often, though not always, followed by an apology, an admission of wrongdoing, or an acknowledgement of what the person did and how it was hurtful. Apologies can take the form of “I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to hurt you” or “I realize what I did was wrong.” They can be an explanation of intent, such as, “I didn’t want to take sides between you and your sister” or “I was trying to make you understand what I was saying.” Apologies can be vulnerable, half-hearted, or somewhere in-between, and they vary widely in their delivery method. Yet as widely as apologies can differ, we seem to have one, over-used, go-to response to these apologies. “It’s ok.” Your partner says they are sorry for not thinking through how their actions would impact you. “It’s ok.” Your coworker apologizes for being overly harsh and critical of your idea in the team meeting. “It’s ok.” Your sibling apologizes for not helping with your parent’s healthcare in a time of crisis. “It’s ok.” Your child says they are sorry for hitting a classmate at school. “It’s ok.” Your friend apologizes for gossiping about you with a shared acquaintance. “It’s ok.” “It’s ok.” I am not such a big fan of this response. “It’s ok,” seems to imply that all is right and all is forgiven. “It’s ok,” is often dismissive of the hurt and minimizing of the impact. “It’s ok,” sounds overly simplistic for a likely complex hurt. “It’s ok,” often leads us to absorb quite a bit of hurt and resentment, which will likely show up at a later date in the relationship. Here are three, additional ways to respond to apologies, besides, “It’s ok.” “I appreciate your apology.” This is a way to convey warmth and gratitude for the apology, while still honoring the emotional impact the hurt had. This response often captures that you can see that the apology may have been difficult for the other person, and you want to show appreciation for their vulnerability and ownership of their role in the hurt. “I hear you.” This communicates that you literally heard the apology and are taking it in. This is often helpful in times when you are skeptical of the apology or not ready to let your guard down enough to engage in a deeper discussion. I don’t use this response often, but when I can’t use one of the other options included in this list, I lean on, “I hear you.” “I accept your apology.” This takes the previous two statements a step further, moving beyond recognition, communicating a heartfelt reception and integration of the apology. When I want to convey that I’m ready to move past the hurt in a meaningful way, I lean on this response. This is not to say that you can’t ever say, “It’s ok.” You totally can. However, I reserve the, “It’s ok,” response for times when I am truly, 99% unimpacted by the other person’s actions. “I’m sorry I forgot to text back; I’m sorry I am late; I’m sorry I bumped into you; I’m sorry I forgot to return the book you loaned me.” These actions don’t typically impact me in a deep way, so a short and casual response feels appropriate. Hurt is a natural part of relationships, and while we hope to minimize the occurrence of this pain, it does happen. How we respond in these moments of pain and hurt are critical, and responding to apologies offers us an amazing opportunity to be intentional, reducing the amount of hurt and resentment that we hang onto in relationships, leading to healthier and more long-lasting relationships. So what do you think; will you give it a go? Will you challenge yourself to respond to apologies in a more intentional and meaningful way?
 I would guess that the following are the most common types of responses.No worries. It's fine.No problem. Please don't let it happen again. Apology accepted. What does it mean when someone says it's OK?used for saying that something does not make you angry, upset, or sad. 'I'm sorry I said that. ' 'Don't worry. It's OK. ' How do you respond to OK thanks?1:588:51DO NOT say "you're welcome"! Respond to "thank you" PROPERLY!YouTubeStart of suggested clipEnd of suggested clipYou can say you're very welcome this is quite a british one i think for example. Thank you so muchMoreYou can say you're very welcome this is quite a british one i think for example. Thank you so much for packing my shopping for me. Oh you're very welcome number two this one is slightly more american. Is it rude to reply OK?Gretchen McCulloch, an internet linguist and author of the upcoming book Because Internet, said OK is not inherently rude but the length of a reply matters. “Anything that's shorter can sound curter, anything that's longer can sound more polite,” McCulloch said. Can I say it's OK for thank you?Under established English language customs of civility, no, it is not all right to use "It's okay" as a reply to "Thank you," but in very informal, laid-back situations it is acceptable. The proper response to "Thank you" is "You're welcome." What to say after someone welcomes you?10 Ways to Say “You're Welcome”
Is OK or its ok?It's okay (with the apostrophe) is correct. In English Grammar, its is used to show possession, such as : The cow was sleeping in the shed and its calf was sleeping beside it. But, it's stands for “it is” or “it has” or “it was”. What does it mean when a guy says it's OK?He either A.) likes you and isn't a forward person and that's his way of saying he likes you too. B.) He probably doesn't reciprocate the same feelings and is just saying it's okay that you do because he values your friendship above all else and doesn't want that to get in the way of you two (AKA you're friend zoned) How to respond to " Yes, it's okay "?sometimes i say "yes, it is okay" sort of jokingly. it's easier to pull off if the word is "cool". you don't always have to respond. Either keep going with what you're talking about, if they dropped it during a verbal pause, or change the subject because they're probably bored. What's the best way to reply to someone?Say something you're passionate about. Ask the question that you're most curious about. Don't resist the things that are burning there to be said, or don't without a good reason. Everyone needs love and connection, but they are often confused, but they will often accept clear opportunities. Oh the irony... How to respond to things that are hard to reply to?Those two responses could only come after you made some dull statement. Don't end with dull statements; use open ended questions... this isn't something you lean to respond to, it's something you learn to prevent. sometimes i say "yes, it is okay" sort of jokingly. it's easier to pull off if the word is "cool". Can a person say, " it's OK "?This is not to say that you can’t ever say, “It’s ok.” You totally can. However, I reserve the, “It’s ok,” response for times when I am truly, 99% unimpacted by the other person’s actions. Related Posts: |
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