Why does my dog get aggressive on my bed

Why does my dog get aggressive on my bed
Why does my dog get aggressive on my bed
Why does my dog get aggressive on my bed
Why does my dog get aggressive on my bed

It is no surprise that people are distraught and perplexed when their otherwise lovely dog behaves in ways they deem egregious, specifically when they growl at or bite people. A gentleman with a 3 year-old Jack Russell Terrier, Lido, contacted me regarding his dog’s tendency to growl at him.

He explained that this happened only in the evening and was curious why his dog seemed relatively mild mannered during the daytime hours, but switched into another state of mind altogether in the evenings. After a bit of investigating it became clear that Lido’s night time growling had more to do with the fact that the evenings were when he was most likely to be in the situation that seemed to trigger these incidents. That is, Lido’s growling was limited (for the time being anyway), to those times when he was resting on the bed and his owner came in to go to sleep.

Guarding people, places and things is normal for dogs (and for most people!) and growling is a dog’s way of giving a warning. The aggressive display may stop with a growl (especially if the perceived threat goes away) or it may be a precursor to snapping and biting. While all of this (growling, snapping, and biting) are normal behaviors for dogs, that doesn’t mean they are also acceptable for a pet dog. Growling (at any time of the day!) and what it might lead to clearly do not bode well for a dog to live a long and happy life with his or her family. Therefore, this is a serious issue and usually requires the personal attention of a professional trainer.

Like many dogs, Lido was a little confused about his place in the world. Growling at his people, or any other person for that matter, is sort of like a business owner screaming at their clients. Making clients happy is how you run a successful business, pay my rent, utilities and food bills. It is how a business owner survives, and they know it. Likewise, if Lido clearly understood that his people are the key to his survival (as they provide the food, water, toys, attention, etc.) then it would be much less likely that he would risk upsetting them (and therefore not benefitting from their ability to share their resources) by behaving aggressively towards them.

The old fashioned way of dealing with this problem would be to fight fire with fire. That is, to physically and verbally punish Lido when he growled. While this may work sometimes, more often than not this makes the problem worse. It may become a battle of human hands and voice against dog teeth! A fight that is clearly favored towards the dog and to the failure of the canine/human relationship. Furthermore, punishing a dog for growling is a sure fire way to eliminate a very valuable warning signal. I suspect just about everyone would prefer a dog growl at them rather than bite (if you had to choose!). If you punish a dog for growling, odds are you aren’t getting rid of the underlying issue (i.e. tension, stress, etc. around the stimulus that caused the growling). All you are doing is teaching the dog to bypass the warning phase (the growl) and leap right to the next level of response to a perceived threat (lunging, snapping and/or biting).

It is much smarter to use your brain to train rather than brawn and with that in mind I set a two step plan for the family:

1. Get Lido on a Learn to Earn Program: Rather than give Lido free access to all the things he wants in life (food, toys, your attention, access to furniture, going for walks, etc.) I asked his family to get control of all of these things and have Lido earn what he wanted (sort of like we all do when we go to work for a paycheck).

2. I asked him family to teach Lido a few behaviors (we started with sit, down and hand targeting) and to ask him to do one of those before he gets anything. This is a vital part of teaching Lido to have a respectful, compliant and enriching relationship with his people by reminding him how important they are and therefore how silly it would be to be anything but super sweet to them! In this way Lido would be gently guided towards a more compliant state of mind and more mannerly and safe behavior.

In addition, I asked them to keep Lido on a leash at all times when they are home and supervising him. This way they can manage him safely and effectively. Specifically, by keeping him off the bed except for those times when they are working on teaching him to wait to get on the bed until given permission and then to get off the bed when requested. As a way of employing the Learn to Earn approach in regards to bed privileges, we taught Lido by keeping him on leash and preventing him from jumping on the bed, waiting for him to sit next to the bed, highlighting or marking that moment by saying ‘yes’ and then patting the bed for him to jump up. Lido is developing a wonderfully rapid and reliable response to being asked to get off the bed as a result of lots of 3-5 minute on leash training sessions where we ask him to get off and then reward him by tossing a piece of his dry food on the ground as a reward.

Getting control of Lido’s issue with guarding the bed is well under way and as an added benefit all of the effort will help decrease the chances that Lido’s tendency to guard will generalize to other things.

Possessive aggression in dogs is a serious problem for dog owners and a common reason that dogs are referred to as companion animal behavioral specialists. When a dog behaves aggressively toward people or other animals that approach valued objects such as a toy, treat, or food, the behavior is described as possession aggression. If you determine that this is the cause of your dog's aggression, you may be able to stop it with some training.

Canine possession aggression is also sometimes referred to as "food aggression" or "resource guarding." If your dog has this problem, it may growl, snap, or bite to protect a resource, such as food, toys, beds, or other objects, from being taken away by another dog or person. This is the dog's way of saying, "Back off! This is mine!"

Note that what your dog considers an object worthy of possessing may not be something you think has any value. For instance, some dogs are just as likely to snarl and snap over a tissue fished out of the trash can as over a favorite toy.

To determine whether your dog is displaying possession aggression, watch it closely for signs of aggressive behavior in certain situations:

  • Growling when a person or another animal approaches its food bowl
  • Growling, snapping, or biting when someone tries to take away a toy or bone
  • Fighting with other dogs over various possessions or favored people
  • Showing physical signs that it may bite when approached with something of value to it or resting in a coveted spot

Different dogs may display different degrees of aggression. Some dogs only show aggression in connection with a specific object and nothing else. For instance, a dog may not care if people or other animals approach while it's playing with a toy. But the same dog may snap or growl if it's approached while it's chewing on a pig's ear.

Other dogs display aggression over practically anything they find around the house, including children's toys, your shoes or clothing, and other random objects.

Different dogs display aggression differently as well. Some dogs never do more than curling a lip or mildly growling. Other dogs may nip or bite someone who approaches while they're eating.

It's also possible for aggression to escalate over time. A dog may start off with a small growl over its food bowl, but if its warnings are ignored, it may resort to biting to protect its things.

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Possession aggression in dogs is a natural behavior that originates from the instinct to react to a perceived threat. Although it's useful, necessary behavior in the wild, it has no place in your home and needs to be managed before it develops into a serious problem. Reasons for resource guarding may include:

  • Acquired behavior: Some puppies learn resource guarding behavior from their mothers or littermates. Even pups only a few weeks old have been observed growling over food bowls.
  • Arrival of a rival: A single dog in your household may never show signs of possession aggression. But if you adopt another dog, squabbles over toys, food bowls, or territories may suddenly break out.
  • Shelter dog syndrome: It's not uncommon for dogs that spend a long time in an animal shelter to develop a problem with possession aggression. This may be because they see the other shelter dogs as competition for limited resources.

If the sign your dog exhibits is growling, be sure you are dealing with the growling properly. The worst thing you can do is to force your dog to give up the item he's protecting. You could get injured and your dog will learn nothing. Instead, teach your dog to trust you around its treasures. It's better to find a way to convince your dog that giving up the item means something good will happen.

Instead of taking away your dog's treasured object, try introducing something your dog may find even more valuable, like a special treat or a new toy. If your dog is holding the item he is guarding, you can use the "drop it" cue to get your dog to give up the item. Just make sure you have a valuable reward.

After your dog stops guarding and gets the other reward, you can let him have the item he was guarding back. Repeat the exercise often, each time your dog is resource guarding. Over time, your pet will learn that there is no need to protect its possessions.

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Some trainers recommend a multi-step process that conditions a dog to willingly move on from a resource. This can work well with meals. Place several dog bowls around a large room. Put bland food in one bowl. While your dog eats, add a more desirable food to another bowl that is at a distance. Do not get close enough to evoke an aggressive response; just let your dog see that you are offering a valuable alternative. Continue to add more valuable food to additional bowls, but stop if your dog shows aggression.

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In the initial stages of treatment, it is best to keep highly desirable objects away from your dog, or only given in confined, controlled circumstances such as in their crate. Make sure these items are kept away from your pet so that they can't steal them when you're not looking. Start behavioral modification exercises like those described above, with items that are guarded less heavily, then work your way up to the items that are more valuable to your dog.

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If your dog is actually trying to bite, you must be very careful. If you are not seeing improvement on your own, or if your dog's aggression is getting worse, consider getting help from a dog trainer or behaviorist to correct your dog's behavior.

If you suspect your pet is sick, call your vet immediately. For health-related questions, always consult your veterinarian, as they have examined your pet, know the pet's health history, and can make the best recommendations for your pet.