What is a Siren art of seduction?

A man is often secretly oppressed by the role he has to play—by always having to be responsible, in control, and rational. The Siren is the ultimate male fantasy figure because she offers a total release from the limitations of his life. In her presence, which is always heightened and sexually charged, the male feels transported to a realm of pure pleasure. In a world where women are often too timid to project such an image, learn to take control of the male libido by embodying his fantasy.

Cleopatra provided constant variety—tributes, mock battles, expeditions, costumed orgies. Everything had a touch of drama and was accomplished with great energy. By the time your head lay on the pillow beside her, your mind was spinning with images and dreams. And just when you thought you had this fluid, larger-than-life woman, she would turn distant or angry, making it clear that everything was on her terms. You never possessed Cleopatra, you worshiped her. In this way a woman who had been exiled and destined for an early death managed to turn it all around and rule Egypt for close to twenty years.

From Cleopatra we learn that it is not beauty that makes a Siren but rather a theatrical streak that allows a woman to embody a man’s fantasies. A man grows bored with a woman, no matter how beautiful; he yearns for different pleasures, and for adventure. All a woman needs to turn this around is to create the illusion that she offers such variety and adventure. A man is easily deceived by appearances; he has a weakness for the visual.

Create the physical presence of a Siren (heightened sexual allure mixed with a regal and theatrical manner) and he is trapped. He cannot grow bored with you yet he cannot discard you. Keep up the distractions, and never let him see who you really are. He will follow you until he drowns.

The Sex Siren has a more urgent and immediate effect than the Spectacular Siren does. The incarnation of sex and desire, she does not bother to appeal to extraneous senses, or to create a theatrical buildup. Her time
never seems to be taken up by work or chores; she gives the impression that she lives for pleasure and is always available. What separates the Sex Siren from the courtesan or whore is her touch of innocence and vulnerability.

The mix is perversely satisfying: it gives the male the critical illusion that he is a protector, the father figure, although it is actually the Sex Siren who controls the dynamic.

A woman doesn’t have to be born with the attributes of a Marilyn Monroe to fill the role of the Sex Siren. Most of the physical elements are a construction; the key is the air of schoolgirl innocence. While one part of you seems to scream sex, the other part is coy and naive, as if you were incapable of understanding the effect you are having. Your walk, your voice, your manner are delightfully ambiguous—you are both the experienced, desiring woman and the innocent gamine.

Your next encounter will be with the Sirens, who bewitch every man that approaches them. . . . For with the music of their song the Sirens cast their spell upon him, as they sit there in a meadow piled high with the moldering skeletons of men, whose withered skin still hangs upon their bones.

—CIRCE TO ODYSSEUS, THE ODYSSEY, BOOK XII

The voice. Clearly a critical quality, as the legend indicates, the Siren’s voice has an immediate animal presence with incredible suggestive power. The Siren must have an insinuating voice that hints at the erotic,
more often subliminally than overtly.

Body and adornment. If the voice must lull, the body and its adornment must dazzle. It is with her clothes that the Siren aims to create the goddess effect that Baudelaire described in his essay “In Praise of Makeup”:
“Woman is well within her rights, and indeed she is accomplishing a kind of duty in striving to appear magical and supernatural. She must astonish and bewitch; an idol, she must adorn herself with gold in order to be adored. She must borrow from all of the arts in order to raise herself above nature, the better to subjugate hearts and stir souls.”

Movement and demeanor. The Siren moves gracefully and unhurriedly. The proper gestures, movement, and demeanor for a Siren are like the proper voice: they hint at something exciting, stirring desire without being obvious. Your air must be languorous, as if you had all the time in the world for love and pleasure.

Your gestures must have a certain ambiguity, suggesting something both innocent and erotic. Anything that cannot immediately be understood is supremely seductive, and all the more so if it permeates your manner.

Dangers

The Siren must prepare for age by paying attention early on to the more psychological, less physical forms of coquetry that can continue to bring her power once her beauty starts to fade.

For deep insights into psychology, read The Dichotomy of the Self.

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Recently, I bought a book that has been on my reading list for a long time and you may know it not only because of the title but also because it's a very known book! It's called the Art of Seduction, written by Robert Greene. While I was reading it, I came across the very first chapter (after preface) and it's called The Siren, one of the seductive characters explained on this book

A man is often secretly oppressed by the role he has to play, by always having to be responsible, in control, and rational. The siren is the ultimate male fantasy figure because she offers a total release from the limitations of his life. In her presence, which is always heightened and sexually charged, the ale feels transported to a realm of pure pleasure. In a world where women are often too timid to protect such an image, learn to take control of the man libido by embodying his fantasy. - page 5, The Art of Seduction.

So I decided to write an article teaching you how to be the siren, the girl men fantasise about and crave for. Are you ready?

Distinguish from other Women

• By having an highly feminine energy and sexual presence. being unique and a "rare mystical thing".

Having the Ability to make men Pursue you

• First of all, to be able to be pursued you must not pursue, so let the men do that job, the more he invests on you the more he will trick his own mind to be attached to you.
• You have to have a highly sexual presence BUT not in a wh*re type of way, and for that I mean for not putting yourself in a position where he will think he can take what he wants from you and then loose interest and walk away. For that, you must be slightly elusive and distant. Be larger than life as well!

The Voice

• Have a sweet voice, speak with softness, good diction, not quickly, aggressively and with an high pitch. Lower your voice and talk slower, like you just woke up.

• Watch and listen to voices like Lauren Bacall, Marilyn Monroe, etc

The way to Dress

• Must Dazzle! Use golden things and have the Goddess effect.

• Wear clothes that are sexy, but in a way that you suggest it and not screaming it! One good way to this is to chose a part of your body that you feel it's the most beautiful and sexy, like your shoulders, legs, arms, decolletage, etc. And show it, but only show that part, the rest is modestly covered. As I said on my "how to be a femme fatale" article, you must stimulate his imagination, so don't show it all, only glances of skin.

How to Move

• Move gracefully and in an elegant way, move your hips naturally, one feet in front of the other, chin up, look forward. Walk calmly with no rush. Just like you have all the time of the world.

Makeup and Hair

• Long hair it's the favourite among men, and it's considered the most feminine. But I won't say you have to grow your hair long, wear a wig or to wear extensions, my hair it's a messy bob and my stylist says it's what looks best on me, so what I recommend it's to ask your hairdresser, your family and friends what cut looks best on you, even better, I recommend for you to see what cut you like to see on you! And that's for clothes as well, always wear and use what looks best on you.

In ancient times, makeup was used to make women seem more fertile, so if you want to wear makeup (not saying it's for he same reason as before) you can use:

• Eyeliner/mascara to make your pupils look dilated;
• Eye shadow to give the bedroom eyes look;
• blush to give the hint of flushed (warm, in heat)
• dark coloured lips and to make them appear larger (arousal)
• Bronzer to give the healthy and fertile look
• contouring to make the face look smaller and younger.

Smell

Oh the smell... I've said this on one of my articles before, it's really important that you smell good. That comes not only with good hygiene (regular showers , wear deodorant, brushing teeth, etc) but also from perfumes! And I know some women that don't like to wear them, I have friends like that, you can smell good by simply:

• Applying an good smelling Shampoo and conditioner - with scents like vanilla, coconut, etc

• Using scented Body lotion - I have one from Vaseline, it's called Vaseline Cocoa Radiant and it smells like heaven (and I got a lot of compliments).

• Perfume - apply it to the heat spots of your body, that we all have learned, behind ears, neck, wrists (don't rub them, instead press then gently against each other), behind neck and, in case you're showing your legs, being the knees and in the inner tights. Use a scent that has sexy tones, like musk, vanilla, coconut, rose, black pepper, etc

And that's it for today, I will make a part 2!
I hope you liked it and see you soon :)

Kisses

Freya