What can an 18-month-old do?

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Reviewed by Renee A. Alli, MD on March 07, 2021

Your baby is now 18 months old. How the time flies! What milestones should they have experienced at this age?

Your child should be able to:

  • Walk by themselves
  • Possibly walk up steps or run
  • Squat to pick up a toy
  • Pull toys while they are walking

Your child may try to climb out of their crib at this age. If so, put a bell on the crib so you can know when they are doing it and make sure the area in their bedroom is safe and free of items they could fall or stumble upon. Their climbing out of the crib could be a sign that it's time to move into a bed.

Your child should be able to:

  • Drink from a cup
  • Eat with a spoon
  • Stack two objects or blocks
  • Help undress themselves
  • Hold a crayon and scribble a line

As they near 18 months, it will be easy for them to manipulate an object between their thumb and index finger (like turning a knob or putting a round peg in a hole). You can build on these skills by trying games such as putting large square pegs in matching holes (this is harder than with round pegs because you have to match angles), stacking five or six blocks or taking toys apart and putting them back together. You could also let them feed themselves sometimes, even if it is messy.

Your child should be able to:

  • Use 10-25 words
  • Say the word "no" and shake their head
  • Respond to questions
  • Produce speech-like sounds (babbling), maybe singing along to a song in tone, if not words
  • Understand the concepts of "in" and "on"
  • Repeat some words heard in a conversation
  • Point to people when they're named and identify objects in a book

Continue speaking and reading to your child as a way to build their verbal skills. It's not unusual for them to be able to say a few words which no one can understand but their parents. They may also use one word in place of a whole sentence like "up" to mean, "Pick me up!" Being able to speak takes time, so don't be frustrated if they seem to be taking longer than other people's kids. You may find that one day they finally "gets it" and goe from rarely speaking to full sentences.

Your child may:

  • Like to hand objects to others as play
  • Have temper tantrums
  • Be fearful around strangers
  • Cling to parents or caregivers in new situations
  • Show affection to people they know well
  • Explore alone, with a parent close by

This is the age when children start to test boundaries. Your child may say "no" to any new situations or start to throw a tantrum to get their own way. What happened to your sweet little girl who did whatever you asked? They are still there, but learning independence -- and part of that is trying to do things their way.

They are also beginning to understand what sharing is (by offering something to someone) although they may decide to take it back immediately. It's up to you as the parent to show them that temper tantrums are not acceptable and give them consequences for inappropriate behavior. But above all, be patient with them as they figure things out.

Your child should be able to:

  • Know the uses of ordinary things: a brush, spoon, or chair
  • Point to a body part
  • Scribble on their own
  • Follow a one-step verbal command without any gestures (for instance, they can sit when you tell them to "sit down")
  • Play pretend, such as feeding a doll
  • Point to show others something interesting

At this stage, kids love games with a "payoff" -- they press a button and some music starts to play, for instance. They'll also love playing with bubbles you've blown for them or repeating nursery rhymes with actions.

Tell your doctor if your child can't do any of the following by 18 months:

  • Point to show things to others
  • Walk
  • Imitate others
  • Know the uses of ordinary things, like a brush or comb
  • Gain new words or speak at least six words
  • Notice or mind when you or another caregiver leaves or returns
  • Remember skills they used to have

At 18 months, your child should also be tested for autism as well as for general development, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics. This would be particularly important if they show signs of developmental delay.

Children younger than 18 months don't understand that the symbols on a screen represent equivalent objects in the real world, so the American Academy of Pediatrics doesn't recommend kids watch any screens before that age, whether on TV or a tablet.

Children over 18 months can learn from high-quality educational programs, but their parents must watch with them and reteach the lessons. Don't let your child watch screens by themselves.

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Your toddler is 18 months old! Kids this age are total attention hogs, so don’t be shocked if your toddler turns up the volume every time you begin an adult conversation. They’re also into exercising their independence—though it may not seem like it when they're clinging to your leg at daycare drop-off. Your little independent kiddo is more likely to express themself through words like “mine!” and “now!” and by refusing to be strapped down in any manner. (Hello car seat battles!) Let your toddler buckle in a stuffed animal friend before climbing in the car seat—it might make them feel better about buckling up too.

With this newfound independence, you may face some fresh challenges and adventures with your 18-month-old baby. Don’t fret—we’re here to help you navigate these exciting (and yes, sometimes trying) times. Read on to discover which 18-month-old milestones you should be looking out for as your tot continues to grow and develop.

Your growing 18-month-old is probably full of energy and using it to work on a ton of physical skills.

18-month-old weight and height

How much should an 18-month-old weigh and measure? According to the World Health Organization, average weight of an 18-month-old is 23.4 pounds for girls and 24.1 pounds for boys. Average height of an 18-month-old is 31.8 inches for girls and 32.4 inches for boys.

18-month-old milestones

Parents tend to wonder, “What should my 18-month-old be doing?” Here are some 18-month-old milestones your child may have hit or may be working on:

  • Walking. Most 18-month-olds aren't just walking—they're running. Soon they may begin to jump. But they'll still probably ask to be carried when you're in crowds or taking a longer jaunt.
  • Speech. Most 18-month-olds can say between 10 and 25 words. Soon, your child might start saying two-word phrases. Pointing to an item they want will soon turn into asking for the thing by name. (This goes for naming people as well!)
  • Teething. A toddler's upper cuspids tend to break through between 16 to 22 months, so brace yourself for another round of teething.
  • Potty training. A few toddlers at this age might show signs of readiness to start potty training. If your child tells you they have to go, they want their dirty or wet diaper changed, they're interested in the potty, they can pull their pants up and down and/or they stay dry for at least two hours in a row, they may be ready to try potty training. But don't rush it; it's much more common for kids to be ready to ditch the diapers between ages 2 and 3. It simply won't work if you start before your child is mature enough.

18-month-old behavior

Your independence-seeking 18-month-old may be exhibiting some challenging and pretty odd behaviors. Tap below for advice on dealing with:

  • Tantrums. Even though your kid's language is developing by leaps and bounds, they still can't communicate everything they want to say, and that can lead to some meltdowns. Keep stressful situations, such as a trip to the supermarket, short—and make sure they're well-rested and fed beforehand.
  • Separation anxiety. We’ve all done it: the sneak-away-without-saying-goodbye-once-the-sitter-arrives tactic. But in order to avoid having your child think you could disappear at any time, always acknowledge your departure and emphasize that you’ll be coming back. Other effective strategies? Set them up with an activity as you’re leaving—and keep goodbyes lighthearted but short and firm.
  • ADHD. So your 18-month-old is impulsive, hyperactive and has trouble paying attention? Parents might begin to wonder if their child could be showing signs of ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder), but the fact is, it's too early to tell. Most kids this age exhibit these behaviors—it’s only if they don't grow out of them that it may indicate something more serious, like ADHD. Of course, bring up any concerns with your doctor, but know that a true ADHD evaluation likely won’t happen until your child is in a formal school setting.
  • Autism. At the 18-month checkup, your child's pediatrician will likely ask you a series of questions about your child's behavior to look for signs of autism. Signs may include unusual movements (such as flapping arms), not making eye contact and interacting atypically with others.

How to discipline an 18-month-old

Want to get your child to behave? Remember that toddlers are still developing their cognitive and social-emotional abilities, and they still lack sufficient verbal skills to express themselves clearly (can you imagine how frustrating that must feel?). Positive behavior should be rewarded; negative behavior shouldn't. Acknowledge their feelings but set limits and stick to them. Make sure they get plenty of food, rest, exercise and one-on-one attention. Most of all, be patient and find ways to teach them what’s appropriate behavior.

Eighteen-month-olds seem to have mild illness after mild illness. Some common health questions parents have at this age include:

  • My 18-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 18-month-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 18-month-old has a fever. What should I do?
  • What should I do about my 18-month-old's cough?
  • My 18-month-old baby is throwing up. What should I do?
  • What should I do about croup in an 18-month-old?

When it comes to eating and drinking, this age is all about transitioning: Your child probably isn't eating much "baby food" anymore, and drinks whole milk instead of breast milk or formula. Most 18-month-olds can drink from a regular cup, and about half can drink from a straw cup. They shouldn’t be using bottles at this age though. (Bottles should typically go by the time your kiddo is 12 months.)

How much should my 18-month-old eat and drink?

One- to 2-year-olds should be eating much like you do: three meals per day, plus two snacks.

Aim to give your child about three 8-ounce cups of whole milk per day if they don't get calcium from other foods. But don't force your kid to drink it if they're refusing.

If you're weaning an 18-month-old from breastfeeding, remember to go slow. Drop one daily nursing session for at least three to seven days before dropping the next. If you go too fast, you could risk plugged milk ducts and infection. Plus, it's a transition that could have an emotional effect on your child, so they may need a little extra comfort while weaning.

What should my 18-month-old be eating?

Continue to offer your child a variety of foods at each meal and during snack time. Most toddlers should eat about ¾ to 1 cup of fruits and veggies, ¼ cup grains and three tablespoons of protein per day.

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for an 18-month-old:

18-month-old feeding schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

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*A toddler's serving size is about ¼ of an adult's

Source: HealthyChildren.org

18-month-old won’t eat

Toddlerhood is known for picky eating, so try not to worry too much if your child is turning down nutritious foods and eating what seems like half a bite for dinner. They're not growing as quickly as they did in their first year, and let's face it, saying “no” to eating is part of exercising their newfound independence. The best you can do is to keep offering nutritious food options, choosing and preparing food together, and modeling healthy eating behaviors for your child. You can bring up any worries about growth or weight gain with the pediatrician at the 18-month checkup.

Should an 18-month-old take vitamins?

If you're concerned your tot isn't getting enough nutrition in their diet, ask the pediatrician about supplementing with vitamins. Some toddlers take a multivitamin and/or an iron supplement. Fiber gummies are commonly given to prevent constipation, but they're rarely needed: fruits and veggies can usually do the trick to keep an 18-month-old's digestive system on track.

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18-Month-Old Sleep

Getting a good night's sleep is important for your toddler's growth and brain development.

How much sleep does an 18-month-old need?

Most 18-month-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

18-month-old sleep schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

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18-month-old sleep training

At 18 months, doctors recommend that kids fall asleep in their bed on their own, without special comfort measures, like rocking from Mom or Dad or a special song playing on the tablet. That's because if your child wakes in the middle of the night, they'll need to know how to put themself back to sleep without the extra help.

Not quite there yet? It's not too late to sleep train at 18 months—especially if your child is still sleeping in a crib. But know that they might be extra-sensitive to it now that they’ve gained some independence and have a better understanding of time away from you than they did as a young baby. Go slowly, setting up a routine where your toddler consistently goes to bed while sleepy but still awake. If they’re used to being with you at bedtime, gradually create some distance each night until you completely remove yourself from their room.

18-month-old sleep regression

Regression can happen when a formerly good sleeper suddenly begins waking more, throwing parents for a loop. A bout of teething or illness could be the cause, or maybe a trip or holiday where their sleep routine changed. To get back to the usual snoozing routine, it's important to know the root of the problem, so you can find the right solution to help your child get through it. Stick with the usual bedtime routine and set limits that will help your child get back on track.

18-month-old won’t sleep

Some nights it seems like you just can't get the kid to sleep. But the truth is, kids need sleep and they will eventually sleep if given the proper cues. Wind things down before bedtime—turn off the TV, music and devices; give them a soothing bath; read calming bedtime stories. And keep the routine consistent: one book, two kisses, one refill of water, then lights out, for example. Don't let your kid stall or delay.

18-month-old climbing out of crib

Climbing is fun! Can you blame your 18-month-old for wanting to climb out of the crib? Some savvy parents catch their toddlers pulling a jailbreak and effectively put an end to it; others simply can't stop them. Once it becomes clear that your child isn't staying put, it's more likely they'll get hurt falling while climbing than they would if they rolled off a low bed. Then it’s time to convert the crib, or bring in a toddler bed or big-kid bed with rails. Some parents choose to put the crib mattress on the floor to prevent falls.

18-month-old night terrors

A night terror is defined as a crying or screaming episode where the child never really wakes and so is unresponsive. Don't try to wake your child during a night terror; just do your best to calm them back to sleep. And be sure their sleeping space is safe to avoid injury if they flail or walk around.

The good news is these seemingly wild sleep disruptions are only upsetting for you. Kids don't even remember them! And kids grow out of having them around age 9. There's no known cause of night terrors, but stress, changes in routine and overtiredness can contribute to them. So try to stick to a calming bedtime routine, and put your child to bed early, so they can get a full night's rest.

Activities for an 18-Month-Old

Eighteen-month-olds are very fun to play with. Singing, reading books and having a dance party together helps your child learn and is great quality bonding time for you both. Looking for things to do with an 18-month-old? Some fun activities, games and toys for an 18-month-old include:

  • Singing “Itsy Bitsy Spider.” 18-month-olds tend to love finger play with fun songs and rhymes.
  • Reading board books. Your increasingly independent child will probably start to look at and page through books on their own.
  • Playing music. Time for a toddler dance party! Eventually, your little one may start to sing along.
  • Playing catch. Your child may soon be able to learn to throw a ball overhand.
  • Blowing bubbles. Head outside for a little fresh air and bubbles—they're a no-fail way to make a toddler smile.
  • Playing hide-and-seek with a toy. Your child is now able to clearly remember an object, even though they can't see it—otherwise known as object permanence.
  • Enjoying pretend play. Now is a great age to encourage your 18-month baby to use their imagination and engage in make-believe, which is an important part of child development. Have them cook you breakfast in their play kitchen or dress up in costumes and become superheroes together.

18-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • Take your toddler to their 18-month checkup.
  • Schedule your toddler's 2-year (24-month) checkup.
  • Your child may need a final dose of the Hep A, DTaP or Hib vaccinations, if they didn't already receive them.
  • Keep up the tooth brushing. Your tot might start to want to do this on their own. Encourage the independence but make sure you're helping, so you can be certain teeth are thoroughly cleaned.
  • Have cleanup time together. Your child will begin to learn where items belong and can soon put toys away themselves.
  • If your tot is at daycare, look into the requirements for moving them from the infant room to the toddler room. Gradually introducing an 18-month-old to other toddlers their age is a prime way to promote their socialization skills.
  • Toddlers at this age can usually identify at least two body parts. Continue practicing the names of body parts to help boost their understanding and vocabulary—it’s a perfect opportunity to make up some silly games!

Your toddler is a year and a half now and they’re growing and learning by leaps and bounds every day. As they continue to develop, they’ll learn new words and start understanding more complex sentences. You have so much to look forward to in the upcoming months!

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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Wow, baby is officially more than a year and half old now, and we bet they’re keeping you on your toes! It seems you embark on a new adventure every day as your 19-month-old baby is likely running around, learning new words and maybe starting to throw a tantrum or two. What else is on the list of 19-month old milestones? Keep reading for more about developmental markers, sleep schedules, feeding routines and more.

You're probably amazed at how fast your child is learning and mastering skills. And you're seeing their personality in all the new feats they're performing. Is your child daring or careful? It's getting more obvious as their personality shines through.

19-month-old weight and height

Average 19-month-old baby weight is 23.9 pounds for a girl and 24.6 pounds for a boy, according to the World Health Organization. How tall should a 19-month-old be? Average height is 32.2 inches for a girl and 32.8 inches for a boy.

19-month-old milestones

A lot of parents ask, “What should my 19-month-old be doing?” Here are some 19-month-old milestones they may have hit or are working on:

  • Walking. Your toddler can probably run, climb and bend over to pick up a toy from a standing position.
  • Speech. Your little chatterbox might be able to say 10 to 20 words. If they can't, it may not be cause for concern, but it's worth bringing up to the pediatrician. One common cause for a speech delay is trouble hearing.
  • Teething. Watch out for teething discomfort, as the upper cuspids (canine teeth) and lower second molars tend to break through around this time.
  • Potty Training. Keep talking up the potty and read a few board books (see our favorite ones here) about potty training to psych up your 19-month-old for this upcoming milestone.

19-month-old behavior

Your 19-month-old may be exhibiting some challenging and encouraging behaviors. Tap below for advice on dealing with:

  • Tantrums. Feel like you're already in the terrible twos even though your child isn't 2 yet? Totally normal. Nineteen-month-olds are still learning to communicate and regulate their emotions. These skills will take some time to develop. Give your child TLC when they're upset, and try to help them get their point across when they're frustrated.
  • Separation anxiety. At this age, your kid might become more aware of being away from you and may make a scene—especially if they're hungry, tired or sick. Though it's tempting to linger at daycare drop-off, it's best to make goodbyes quick and stick with a routine. Reassure your child you'll be back and be specific about when.
  • Manners. If you lead by example, your child may pick up basic manners. This generally comes in the form of words like “peas,” “tankoo” and “scoosme.”
  • Social skills. Sharing and playing cooperatively with others may still be a challenge, but you can help by praising positive behavior.

A trip to the pediatrician is common for a 19-month-old if you missed the 18-month visit. Here are some health questions parents have at this age:

  • My 19-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • What should I do about constipation in my 19-month-old?
  • My 19-month-old has a fever. What should I do?
  • My 19-month-old is coughing. What should I do?
  • My 19-month-old baby is vomiting. What should I do?

Your 19-month-old is getting more independent with eating—and possibly with refusing food too.

How much should my 19-month-old eat and drink?

One- to-2-year-olds should be eating much like you do: three meals per day, plus two snacks.

About three 8-ounce cups of whole milk per day is recommended for a 19-month-old, if they don't get calcium from other foods. Aim for about 700 mg of calcium total per day.

If you're weaning a 19-month-old from breastfeeding, remember to go slow. Drop one daily nursing session for at least three to seven days before dropping the next. If you go too fast, you could risk plugged milk ducts and infection. Plus, it's a transition that could have an emotional impact on your child, so they may need a little extra comfort while weaning.

What to feed my 19-month-old

Continue to offer your child a variety of foods at each meal and during snack time. Most toddlers should eat about ¾ to 1 cup of fruits and veggies, ¼ cup grains and three tablespoons of protein per day.

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 19-month-old:

19-month-old feeding schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

19-month-old won’t eat

Toddlerhood is known for picky eating, so try not to worry too much if your child has been turning down nutritious foods and eating what seems like half a bite for dinner. They're not growing as quickly as they did in their first year, and let's face it, saying “no” to eating is part of exercising their newfound independence. The best you can do is to keep offering nutritious food options, choosing and preparing food together and modeling healthy eating behaviors for your child. Pressuring them to eat their broccoli simply won't work.

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19-Month-Old Sleep

A sleep routine is key for a 19-month-old. Getting plenty of sleep is important to your child's development and mood. Having a set routine will help your child learn how to wind down at bedtime and, hopefully, prevent bedtime battles.

How much sleep does a 19-month-old need?

Most 19-month-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day. Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

19-month-old not sleeping at night

There are two common sleep troubles parents can have with 19-month-olds: One is that they don't seem to want to go to bed at bedtime. This is because everything you’re doing seems much more fun than sleeping. But your tot does need to snooze (and you need the quiet time too), so make sure to stick to the same calming bedtime routine—and start it at the same time each night.

The other common predicament is that they're waking up during the night, either calling for you or coming into your bedroom. To prevent this, it's important your child learns to fall asleep on their own, without special soothers or a parent to cuddle with. That way, when they wake in the middle of the night, they'll know how to put themself back to sleep without needing your help.

To help teach this skill, try to cut down on trips to your child's room and/or don't let your child come into your bed in the middle of the night. (If they do, bring them back to their own bed immediately.) All these strategies can establish nighttime rules and promote a good night’s sleep for a toddler (and for you too).

Night terrors in 19-month-olds

A 19-month-old waking up screaming at night might be having a night terror. A night terror is defined as a crying or screaming episode where the child never really wakes and so is unresponsive. Don't try to wake your child during a night terror, just do your best to calm them back to sleep. And be sure their sleeping space is safe to avoid injury if they flail or walk around. The good news is these seemingly wild sleep disruptions are only upsetting for you. Kids don't even remember them! And they usually grow out of having them by age 9. There's no known cause of night terrors, but stress, changes in routine and overtiredness can contribute to them. So try to stick to a calming bedtime routine, and put your child to bed early enough so they can get a full night's rest.

Activities for a 19-Month-Old

As your child learns and develops new skills, incorporate them into the playtime you have together. Looking for things to do with a 19-month-old? Some fun activities, games and toys for a 19-month-old include:

  • Playing soccer. Your tot is developing their kicking skills.
  • Going to the park. They'll love practicing climbing skills on young child-friendly equipment.
  • Caring for a baby doll. 19-month-olds start to imitate actions they see their parents do, like holding and feeding a baby.
  • Playing with puppets. The imaginative play is a learning experience for your child.
  • Drawing or scribbling. Give your 19-month old baby some crayons or markers and let them begin making their own masterpieces.
  • Reading. It’s extremely important to continue reading to baby. By now, they’ll likely have some favorite stories and will follow along with you.

Should a 19-month old watch TV? At this age, it might be tempting to start letting your little one get screen time—because they want to do exactly what they see their parents doing. Just because you can choose between Mickey, Paw Patrol and 10,000 other toddler shows doesn’t mean you should let your child tune in 24/7.

In fact—brace yourself—doctors say children 18 to 24 months should get less than an hour of screen time a day. That hour should ideally be on an education-based program, and you should talk about it with your child. The reason is development: It’s too easy for a toddler to zone out in the presence of TV instead of being stimulated by new experiences, and at this age, it's difficult for them to understand what's happening on the screen and how that relates to the real world.

19-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • Take your toddler to their 19-month check-up.
  • Encourage your child to undress themself. This is a good skill to develop at this age, and you'll see the benefits once you have one less task you need to help with.
  • Bring your own books and playthings to the doctor's office or restaurant to keep your child occupied while you wait. These places often have crayons or toys, but you'll want to have as much backup as possible. Remember, you’ll want to avoid getting into the habit of placing your 19-month old baby in front of a screen during these situations.
  • Air travel? Assess your kid before accepting the offer to board early. Some toddlers do need the extra time to get settled, but others do better with as little time as possible in a confined plane.
  • Don't give a toddler who's already emotional a long lecture about what they've done wrong—their brains can’t process a lesson when they’re in tantrum mode. Tell them the rules, let the outburst subside and then move on to what's next.
  • Are you bilingual? Now is a great time to begin introducing your language to baby. Use both languages around them and they’ll soon begin making the connections.
  • Is your tot exhibiting aggressive behavior like hitting or biting? Don’t stress too much—this is normal for toddlers at this stage as they navigate ways to process and express strong emotions. Look into ways to address and discourage your child from using aggression.
  • If you have a picky eater on your hands, don’t fret. It’s not unusual for 19-month-olds to stick to what they like. Continue to provide nutritious foods, offering some “safe” foods you know your child loves as well as new foods that’ll expand their palates.

It’s beyond exciting to watch your child meet their 19-month-old milestones. In the coming months, you can likely look forward to your tot stringing words together to form basic sentences and naming familiar people and objects. But remember, every child progresses at their own speed. If you’re ever concerned about your toddler’s development, don’t hesitate to speak with your pediatrician.

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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With age comes more opinions. You’ll likely notice your 20-month-old baby insists on doing things their own way, which can be both exciting and challenging at times. As your tot continues to grow and develop, you’ll want to keep an eye on certain 20-month-old milestones to ensure they’re staying on track. To help you know what to expect at this age, we’ve provided a handy 20-month-old baby guide with all the info you need, from sleep schedules to checklists.

Twenty-month-olds tend to have two sides to their personalities: the fun-loving, energetic side and the side that's a bit of a challenge. Your little rebel may be resisting feeding, changing, getting in the car seat, washing hands…and just about anything else you want them to do.

Toddlers this age like to feel like they’re in control, so offer lots of opportunities for your kiddo to “help” or make their own choices. Let your child feed themselves, for example (even if it’s messy), and if they say they're done after two bites, so be it. And give your kid a chance to feel as if they're making their own decisions. For example, you might ask, “Do you want to bring your teddy or your truck for the trip?” as you get ready for a car ride, instead of simply, “It’s time to get into your car seat.”

20-month-old weight and height

A 20-month-old’s weight is, on average, 24.4 pounds for a girl and 25 pounds for a boy, according to the World Health Organization. Wondering how tall your 20-month-old should be? Average height is 32.6 inches for a girl and 33.1 inches for a boy.

20-month-old milestones

What should your 20-month-old be doing? Here are some 20-month-old milestones your child may have hit or may be working on:

  • Walking. Some 20-month-olds can stand on one foot while holding on to the wall or a chair. Your toddler is probably working on learning to walk up steps; next will come walking down them. At this point, make sure to use gates at the top and bottom of stairs to protect your little climber. To prevent children from falling out of windows, keep furniture away from windows and make sure windows have guards.
  • Speech. Your child may be saying between 25 and 50 words, and will soon start asking "What?" and "What's that?" to just about everything. They’ll also use two-word combinations and reply to requests with “no.”
  • Teething. 20 months is about the time a child's lower second molars pop through, so don't be surprised if there are a few nights with disrupted sleep.
  • Potty training. A few 20-month-olds show signs of potty training readiness. Now might be a good time to buy a training potty seat and/or start reading potty training books together, if you haven't already. But beware of putting pressure on your kid to potty train too soon. Most kids aren't really ready to start until about 27 to 32 months.

20-month-old behavior

Your now almost-2-year-old is ever-changing, but here’s advice on how to deal with some potentially challenging behaviors:

  • Tantrums. Even though your kid's language is developing by leaps and bounds, they still can't communicate everything they want to say, and that can lead to some meltdowns.
  • Separation anxiety. At this age, your kid might become more aware of being away from you and may make a scene—especially if they're hungry, tired or sick. Though it's tempting to linger at daycare drop-off, it's best to make goodbyes quick and to stick with a routine. Reassure your child you'll be back and be specific about when.
  • Pushing, hitting or biting. Chalk it up to experimentation, but 20-month-olds tend to have their moments of behaving badly. Avoid overreacting or using physical punishment—"biting" your kid to show them how much it hurts doesn't stop them from doing it. Stay calm and keep telling your child that hurting others is never okay.

Twenty-month-olds seem to have mild illness after mild illness. Some common health questions parents have at this age include:

  • My 20-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • What should I do about constipation in my 20-month-old?
  • My 20-month-old has a temperature that's high. What should I do if a fever develops?

Feel like a short-order cook? It’s okay to let your toddler know “this is what’s for dinner” and not offer other options. They won’t starve by refusing a meal now and then.

How much should my 20-month-old eat and drink?

One- to 2-year-olds should be eating much like you do: Three meals per day, plus two snacks. Give them a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein and dairy—daily.

What to feed my 20-month-old

Toddlers tend to get too little calcium, iron and fiber. In addition to dairy products, your child can get calcium from foods such as green leafy veggies, broccoli and tofu. Tofu can provide iron too, as can fortified cereal, dried peaches and lean ground beef. For fiber, you may offer pinto or refried beans, prunes, bananas and whole wheat pasta.

For meal inspiration, check out these food ideas for a 20-month-old:

20-month-old feeding schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

20-month-old won’t eat

Now that your child's growth is slowing down and they're getting more independent, you might find them refusing to eat more often than they used to. You can't and really shouldn't force your child to eat—but you should keep offering a variety of healthy foods and as many unprocessed foods as possible. Here's more great advice on how to deal with picky eating. If your child won't eat anything at all, it could be a sign of illness, and you should call the pediatrician immediately.

Product Recommendations for Your 20-Month-Old

20-Month-Old Sleep

Most parents transition toddlers from crib to bed between the ages of 1.5 and 3 years old. Not quite there yet? First, lower the crib mattress as far as it will go and see if that will keep them secure. Ready to take the plunge? Let your tot help you put their big-kid bed together—it'll help them feel more ownership.

How much sleep does a 20-month-old need?

Most 20-month-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

20-month-old sleep schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

20-month-old sleep regression

Regression can happen when a formerly good sleeper suddenly begins waking more, throwing you for a loop. A bout of teething or illness could be the cause, or maybe a trip or holiday where their sleep routine changed. To get back to the usual snoozing routine, it's important to know the root of the problem, so you can find the right solution to help your child get through it. Stick with the usual bedtime routine and set limits that will help your child get back on track.

20-month-old won’t sleep

Some nights, it seems like bedtime takes way too much convincing. But the truth is, kids need rest and they will eventually sleep. We promise! Wind things down before bedtime—turn off the TV, music and devices at least an hour before bedtime; give your tot a soothing bath and read calming stories. And keep the routine consistent: one book, two kisses, one refill of water, then lights out, for example. Don't let your kid stall or delay.

20-month-old nightmares

When your toddler wakes in the middle of the night, it can be tough to tell whether it's because of a nightmare or another sleep disturbance. But time could clue you in: Doctors say dreams and nightmares tend to happen in the second half of the night.

If you suspect your 20-month-old has had a nightmare, comfort them and soothe them back to sleep, reassuring your child that you'll be close and everything is okay. During the day, be careful they're not exposed to any stories or shows that could scare them and cause future nightmares.

20-month-old waking up too early

We've been there: You know your child needs more morning Zzz's but they get up with the sun. Make sure their room is dark and quiet in the mornings. We highly recommend blackout shades or curtains for their windows.

Activities for a 20-Month-Old

A 20-month-old shows independence through simple chores and activities they see their parents or older siblings do. They love songs and learning through playtime. Looking for things to do with a 20-month-old? Some fun activities, games and toys for a 20-month-old include:

  • Drawing with crayons. Together you can work on practicing drawing a straight line.
  • Head, shoulders, knees and toes! Your 20-month-old may be able to name up to six body parts.
  • Playing with blocks. Your child is still working on stacking skills and may be able to stack up to six of them.
  • Doing chores together. Let your 20-month-old set the spoons on the table, wipe up spills and sweep the floor with a mini-broom. At this age, work feels like play.
  • Reading together. Never underestimate the power of reading. Read with your 20-month-old baby every day and encourage them to choose their favorite stories and follow along.
  • Using your imagination. Find ways to get your toddler to engage in pretend play. Dress up in costumes, build forts and turn cardboard boxes into spaceships, and let fun, imaginary narratives unfold.

20-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • It's never too early to practice good hygiene. Teach your child to wash and dry their hands and get into the habit of doing it together.
  • Dentists recommend a 20-month-old uses a small dab of fluoride toothpaste to brush their teeth. Practice brushing your teeth together—after a while, you just may notice your kiddo wanting to brush their own teeth. It’s okay to let them experiment, but be sure to do a second round of brushing to ensure you get all their teeth truly clean.
  • Your toddler’s lower molars should start growing in around this age, so keep remedies at the ready to ease any discomfort.
  • A 20-month-old is often ready to tackle stairs. Section off stairs in your home with safety gates to prevent any accidents until your tot masters this new skill.
  • If you’re still giving your 20-month-old baby a cup of milk before bed, it’s time to start weaning them off of it. It is okay to stop it altogether—only offering it with dinner or after their last meal of the evening.
  • Shampooing can be annoying to toddlers, but the good news is that you don't have to do it every day. Depending on the child's hair and skin type, washing hair once a week is probably just fine.
  • As tempting as it is to allow your child to watch TV, continue to limit screen time as much as possible. Some studies suggest introducing screens too early can have negative effects on children’s short-term memory and attention spans. It can also potentially delay their language development and disturb their sleep.

Time seems to be flying by as your 20-month-old baby learns something new every day and continues to grow and develop. While you’re tracking your child’s progress toward their 20-month-old milestones, keep in mind that every little one develops at their own pace. However, if you’re ever concerned about your toddler not learning certain skill sets, contact your pediatrician.

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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Your toddler is 21 months old!

Playtime is even more entertaining as you start seeing your tot’s personal interests shine through in her toy and game choices. Little Sophia may like crashing toy trucks, and little Asher may dig your shiny pink heels. Kids at this age don’t know there are gender-specific toys—they’re just having fun. During playtime or mealtime, be warned that the wee one may find it “fun” to stick small objects—like raisins or beads—in her nose, ears, or other orifices. So watch closely.

As your 21-month-old continues to grow, he's developing some new tricks to show off.

21-Month-Old Weight & Height

How much should my 21-month-old weigh? Average weight for a 21-month-old is 24.9 pounds for girls and 25.5 pounds for boys. Average height for a 21-month-old is 32.9 inches for girls and 33.5 inches for boys.

Here are some milestones your 21-month-old may have hit or may be working on:

Motor skills. Most 21-month-olds can run, squat and throw a ball underhand. They can follow two-step directions. For example: Fill up the truck with blocks, then push it to me.
Speech. Your toddler may know 50 or more words and can put two together to make a phrase.
Teething. Your toddler's lower second molars might be erupting, causing some teething discomfort—some come in earlier.
Potty Training. A few 21-month-olds show signs of potty training readiness. It's okay to get an early start if you truly feel he's prepared. But beware of putting pressure on your kid to potty train—it's still early. Most kids aren't really ready to start until about 27 to 32 months.

As your child gets older, here’s advice on how to deal with some potentially challenging behaviors:

Tantrums. Even though your kid's language is developing by leaps and bounds, she still can't communicate everything she wants to say, and that can lead to some meltdowns.
Autism. At the upcoming 2-year-old checkup, your child's pediatrician will likely ask you a series of questions about his behavior to look for signs of autism. But if you have any concerns before then, you shouldn't feel shy about bringing them up to the doctor right away.
Seeking approval. Soon your child will show signs she's aware of your approval…or disapproval. This is an important early step in learning positive behaviors. When your child behaves positively, tell her how much you like it. The opposite goes when she isn't behaving well: Tell her you don't like it.

Health is always a top concern for parents, and this age is no different. Some common health questions parents of 21-month-olds have include:

• My 21-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?• What's a normal heart rate for a 21-month-old? Answer: between 80 and 130 beats per minute.

• My 21-month-old baby is vomiting. What should I do?


• My 21-month-old has a cough. What should I do?
• My 21-month-old has a temperature. What should I do if a fever develops?

Product Recommendations for Your 21-Month-Old

21-Month-Old Sleep

Your toddler needs plenty of sleep for his development—and to keep his mood in check. But there are some sleep questions and challenges parents of a 21-month-old can encounter.

How Much Sleep Does My 21-Month-Old Need?

Most 21-month-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

21-Month-Old Sleep Schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

21-Month-Old Sleep Regression

Regression can happen when a formerly good sleeper suddenly begins waking more, throwing her parents for a loop. A bout of teething or illness could be the cause, or maybe a trip or holiday where her sleep routine changed. To get back to the usual snoozing routine, it's important to know the root of the problem, so you can help your child get through it. Stick with the usual bedtime rituals and set limits that will help your child get back on track.

21-Month-Old Fighting Sleep

It's normal for a 21-month-old to resist bedtime. Everything else seems much more fun than sleeping. But your tot does need to snooze (and you need the quiet time too). Here's another place where adhering to the same calming bedtime routine—and starting it at the same time each night—can help.

Also, make sure your child gets plenty of active play during the day, and that you power down devices and TV at least 20 minutes before bedtime. And make sure the afternoon nap doesn't run too late in the day.

21-Month-Old Climbing Out of Crib

The first time you find your toddler climbing out of the crib can surprise any parent. Some savvy parents catch their toddlers pulling a jailbreak and effectively scare them into never trying it again; others simply can't stop them. Once it becomes clear your child isn't staying put, it's really more likely they'll get hurt falling while climbing than they would if they rolled off a low bed. Then it’s time to convert the crib, or bring in a toddler bed or big-kid bed with rails. Some parents even prefer setting the crib mattress on the floor, so the child can't fall far.

Eating is a really big part of a 21-month-old's life, but you shouldn't make a really big deal about it. In other words, don't fight your kid about food or lecture him if he doesn't eat his green beans. Just offer him healthy options and let him choose what he wants. A little praise for making good choices doesn't hurt.

How Much Should My 21-Month-Old Eat and Drink?

One- to 2-year olds should be eating much like you do: Three meals per day, plus two snacks. Give him a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein and dairy—daily.

Most 21-month-olds should be drinking whole milk, since one-year-olds need the fat for brain development. At age two, you should switch him to 1 percent or skim milk. Doctors recommend kids ages one to three get 700 mg of calcium per day. So if your kid doesn't get calcium from any other source, he'll need about three 8-ounce cups of milk per day. If he does consume other forms of calcium, you can adjust his milk intake accordingly.

If you're weaning a 21-month-old from breastfeeding, remember to go slow. Drop one daily nursing session for at least three to seven days before dropping the next. If you go too fast, you could risk plugged milk ducts and infection. Plus, it's a transition that could have an emotional impact on your child, so he may need a little extra comfort and reassurance while weaning.

What to Feed My 21-Month-Old

Continue to offer your child a variety of foods at each meal and during snack time. Most toddlers should eat about ¾ to 1 cup of fruits and veggies, ¼ cup grains and three tablespoons of protein per day.

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 21-month-old:

21-Month-Old Feeding Schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

Source: HealthyChildren.org

21-Month-Old Refuses to Eat

Try not to worry too much if your child is turning down nutritious foods and eating what seems like half a bite for dinner. It's normal for 21-month-olds to be picky eaters. They're not growing as quickly as they did in their first year, and let's face it, saying “no” to eating is part of exercising her newfound independence. The best you can do is to keep offering nutritious food options, choosing and preparing food together, and modeling healthy eating behaviors for your child.

Should a 21-Month-Old Take Vitamins?

If you're concerned your tot isn't getting enough nutrition in his diet, ask the pediatrician about supplementing with vitamins. Some toddlers take a multivitamin and/or an iron supplement. Fiber gummies are commonly given to prevent constipation, but they're rarely needed: Fruits and veggies can usually do the trick for keeping a 21-month-old’s digestive system on track.

Activities for a 21-Month-Old

Fun activities, games and toys for a 21-month-old include:

Make a cardboard house. Using a large cardboard box, cut out a “door,” and you’ve got an instant—and cheap—indoor playhouse. If you feel like getting fancy, decorate the “house” with windows and other details.
Put together a puzzle. Simple puzzles appeal to about half of 21-month-olds.
Play tag. Kids this age love running around and tagging someone "it."
Mix things up. Your child might notice if you call a "dog" a "car," or let you know the book's the wrong way if you hold it upside down.

21-Month-Old Baby Checklist/Tips

• Keep encouraging your child to learn to dress himself. At this point, he might be able to take off a piece of clothing. Soon, he'll be able to put one on and may be able to put on shoes too.• Enroll in a mommy-and-me swim class. Experts used to discourage official swimming lessons for toddlers under the age of four, since few children under that age have the muscle strength to keep themselves afloat. But these days, experts encourage informal swimming programs to get toddlers comfortable around water—and to teach them its dangers.

• Don't pressure your child to share if she's just not ready to do it yet. But definitely praise her when she does. Some parents find using the term "taking turns" works better than overemphasizing "sharing."


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Can you believe it? It seems like just yesterday you were taking your newborn baby home from the hospital, and now they’re nearly 2 years old! During this stage, you’re going to see your child’s personality really shine through—but even if you have a mellow kiddo, don’t be surprised when they melt down in tears. It’s totally normal for 21-month-olds to feel frustrated as they learn how to effectively communicate. Kids this age are also rarely great at taking turns and sharing, and they can seem downright rude. Keep your cool and model good behavior, so your child sees what they’re supposed to be doing. Eventually they’ll catch on.

In our 22-month-old baby guide below, you’ll find tips on dealing with everything from sleep regression to food strikes. We also list out some of the 22-month-old milestones your tot should be working toward or meeting by now.

As your growing 22-month-old learns new skills, they might get frustrated when they have trouble doing—or aren't allowed to do—the thing they want. But resist the urge to always jump in and help. A little challenge from time to time helps your child gain more independence.

22-month-old weight and height

Average weight for a 22-month-old is 25.4 pounds for girls and 25.9 pounds for boys. Average height for a 22-month-old is 33.4 inches for girls and 33.9 inches for boys.

22-month-old milestones

Check out these 22-month-old milestones your toddler may be approaching or have already hit as their second birthday approaches:

  • Motor skills. Your 22-month-old might be kicking a ball, walking backwards and perhaps even balancing on one foot while holding onto a sturdy chair or wall. Soon, they might be able to pedal a tricycle.
  • Speech. They’re probably saying 50 words or as many as 100.
  • Teething. Your toddler's lower second molars and/or upper second molars might be erupting, causing some teething discomfort.
  • Potty training. Some 22-month-olds show signs of potty training readiness. You can start encouraging your kiddo to sit on the potty, but beware of putting pressure on them to potty train—it's still early. Toddlers are more likely to be ready once they reach 30 months.

22-month-old behavior

As your child gets older, here’s advice on how to deal with new behaviors:

  • Tantrums. A 22-month-old baby is still learning how to properly communicate, so tantrums and meltdowns are often inevitable—which can be frustrating for both you and your little one. Be patient and experiment with ways to effectively and productively work through them together.
  • Autism. At the upcoming two-year checkup, your child's pediatrician will likely ask you a series of questions about your child's behavior to look for signs of autism. However, if you have concerns, don’t hesitate to bring them to your pediatrician’s attention before your next scheduled visit. The usual screening age is 18 months.
  • Seeking approval. Soon your child will show signs that they’re aware of your approval (or disapproval). Encourage positive behavior and explain why you don’t approve of certain other behavior.
  • Exploration. Try not to be alarmed if your toddler starts touching their private parts. This is normal for both boys and girls at this stage and is no cause for concern.

Common health questions parents of 22-month-old toddlers have include:

  • My 22-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 22-month-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 22-month-old is throwing up. What should I do?
  • My 22-month-old has a fever. What should I do?

The key to feeding a 22-month-old is variety. Even if you know they’re only going to eat rice, it's still important to serve the chicken and veggies with it.

How much should my 22-month-old eat and drink?

One- to 2-year-olds should be eating much like you do: three meals per day, plus two snacks. Portion size isn't big at this age: Expect your kid to eat a serving of pasta the size of a Ping-Pong ball, protein as big as four marbles and chopped veggies or fruit around the size of four dominoes—these are all considered normal portions for a toddler this age.

About three 8-ounce cups of whole milk per day is recommended for a 22-month-old, if they don't get calcium from other foods. Aim for about 700 mg of calcium total per day.

If you're weaning your 22-month-old from breastfeeding, remember to go slow. Drop one daily nursing session for at least three to seven days before dropping the next. If you go too fast, you could risk plugged ducts and infection. Plus, it's a transition that can have an emotional effect on your child, so they may need a little extra comfort while weaning.

What to feed my 22-month-old

Continue to offer your child a variety of foods at each meal and during snack time. Most toddlers should eat about ¾ to 1 cup of fruits and veggies, ¼ cup grains and three tablespoons of protein per day.

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 22-month-old:

22-month-old feeding schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

22-month-old won’t eat

Got a picky eater? Most toddlers do get proper nutrition when their parents serve a variety of foods—even if it doesn’t always seem that way. But unlike adults, who often eat out of habit or boredom, toddlers tend to eat only when they’re hungry. And remember: New foods are scary to your toddler. So manage your expectations; it may take inspecting new foods several times before they’ll actually taste them. Don’t force it, but continue trying, so they get used to sampling different flavors.

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22-Month-Old Sleep

Whether your child loves or hates bedtime, you probably have questions about what's typical when it comes to sleep for a 22-month-old, and what to do when there are hiccups in the usual sleep routine.

How much sleep does my 22-month-old need?

Most 22-month-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

22-month-old sleep schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

22-month-old sleep regression

Is your 22-month-old waking up in the middle of the night? Sleep regression can happen because of teething, separation anxiety or a change in sleep routine. To get back to the usual sleep routine, it's important to know the root of the problem, so you can help your child get through it. Stick with your routine and set limits (such as no sleeping in your room) that will help your child get back on track.

Night terrors in 22-month-olds

If your 22-month-old is waking up screaming at night, they might be having a night terror. A lot of kids experience night terrors, which involve a crying or screaming episode in which the child never really wakes up and is unresponsive. When this happens, resist the urge to wake your toddler up and instead try to soothe them and make sure they don’t injure themselves while flailing around in bed. The good news is that kids usually don’t even remember these sleep disruptions, and they often grow out of them by the time they turn 9 years old or sooner. While the exact cause is unknown, sticking to a calm and regular bedtime routine and reducing stress may help combat them.

Activities for a 22-Month-Old

Playtime helps your 22-month-old make sense of the world and develop key skills. Looking for things to do with a 22-month-old? Some fun activities, games and toys for a 22-month-old include:

  • Pretend play. Dress-up clothes, vehicles, toy cash registers and play food are all popular toys at this age.
  • Ride-on toys. Cars, wagons and pushcarts will keep your on-the-go tot busy.
  • Musical instruments. Make some noise with kid-friendly xylophones, pianos and drums.
  • Books. These are always a favorite, and you should continue to read to your toddler every day.

22-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • Let your toddler know that interrupting isn't okay, and then don’t respond right away when they do it. Wrap up the conversation you’re having quickly and then give them your attention when you're done.
  • Teach your toddler to sneeze or cough into the crook of their elbow—not into their hands—to avoid the spread of germs.
  • Explore new foods with your toddler. If they don’t like something, keep offering it along with foods you know they do like.
  • Continue to be mindful of how much screen time you’re exposing your toddler to, as it can be damaging to their language development, sleep cycle and attention span. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends no more than an hour of screen time a day for children around 2 years old.
  • Start looking for signs that your tot is ready for potty training. If their diaper is staying dry for longer periods of time, they tell you when they need to go or expresses interest in “big kid underwear,” it might be time to start the transition.

Congrats! You and your little one have almost hit the two-year mark together, and you’re right to marvel at all that they’ve learned and accomplished. As always, those 22-month-old milestones are meant to help track your child’s progress, but the timeline isn’t set in stone—every child develops at their own pace. If you’re ever concerned about your toddler’s development, speak to your pediatrician.

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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Toddlers are notoriously resistant to change. If changes (like a new caregiver or even just a new sippy cup) are stressing your 23-month-old out, maintain stability in other parts of their life and offer support and understanding.

You may be wondering when your 23-month-old will stop asking to hear songs again that you just played for the five billionth time. It’s annoying, yes—but toddlers actually learn through repetition, so embrace this phase as they’re processing new experiences and information.

Your child is making physical and verbal leaps and bounds, and you're probably astonished by the progress they’ve made. A year ago, your little one was a squishy baby attached to your hip. These days, your 23-month-old has grown taller, probably leaned out a lot (oh, how we miss those baby rolls!) and is much more verbal and active.

23-month-old weight and height

Average weight of a 23-month-old is 25.9 pounds for girls and 26.3 pounds for boys. Average height of a 23-month-old is 33.7 inches for girls and 34.2 inches for boys. However, as long as your 23-month-old is where they should be on the growth chart your pediatrician uses to track your 23-month-old baby’s growth, they’re growing just as they should.

23-month-old milestones

The 23-month-old milestones can be quite exciting, and you’ll start to notice that your 23-month-old baby is working on some significant growth and skills. Here are some milestones your 23-month-old may have hit or may be working on:

  • Motor skills. Your 23-month-old might be kicking a ball, walking backwards, and may even be able to balance on one foot while holding onto a sturdy chair or wall. Soon, they might be able to pedal a tricycle.
  • Speech. At 23-months-old, baby probably says about 50 words or as many as 100. They’re probably working on making sentences of two to four words and are listening closely, learning up to 10 new words each day.
  • Teething. Your toddler's lower second molars and/or upper second molars might be erupting, causing some teething discomfort. Unfortunately, this may not be one of your favorite 23-month-old milestones, and your little one may need some extra snuggles.
  • Potty training. Some 23-month-olds show signs of potty training readiness. It's okay to start if you feel they’re prepared. But beware of putting pressure on your kid to potty train—it's still early. Most kids aren't quite ready to start until about 30 months.

What should a 23-month-old be doing?

Expect your 23-month-old baby to be exploring and practicing new skills. You may notice a new interest in practicing climbing up and down stairs, drawing with lines and circular scribbles or playing with other children. You should also be able to understand almost half of what your 23-month-old says to you.

23-month-old behavior

You’ll start to notice changes in your 23-month-old baby’s behavior—some of these changes are exciting, while others are a little more challenging. As your child gets older, here’s some advice on how to deal with new behaviors:

  • Tantrums. Get ready for the terrible twos. It's normal for a 23-month-old to completely lose control over their emotions—especially when they’re tired or hungry. So keep your toddler well-rested and well-fed. When a tantrum starts, try to stay calm, help them identify their feelings and use the art of redirection when you can.
  • Autism. At the upcoming two-year checkup, your child's pediatrician will likely ask you a series of questions about your child's behavior to look for signs of autism. Bring up anything you think may be atypical. (The official screening happens at 18 months.)
  • Separation anxiety. Your child is probably starting to figure out that if they throw a fit, you might not leave. As hard as it is, gently show them that their tears aren't going to change the routine. Keep goodbyes short and sweet, and reassure your toddler that you'll be back—and be specific with the details. For example, “I’ll be back after your nap.”
  • Seeking approval. Soon your child will show signs that they’re aware of your approval (or disapproval). This is an important early step in learning positive behaviors.

Why is my 23-month-old so clingy?

Separation anxiety is very common at this age. A 23-month-old baby has a vivid imagination, which can make things feel very exciting or very scary. Practice providing consistent reassurance when leaving your 23-month-old in someone else’s care by saying, “I’m going to go to the store, but I always come back!” When you return, remind your little one, “See? I came back!” If clinginess has become a real struggle, you can even practice this wording when going into another room. With reassurance, the separation anxiety will improve.

Health is always a top concern for parents, and this age is no different. Some common health questions parents of 23-month-olds have include:

  • My 23-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 23-month-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 23-month-old is throwing up. What should I do?
  • My 23-month-old has a fever. What should I do?

When feeding a 23-month-old, curb your expectations. They're not likely to eat nearly as much as older family members, and they might seem to love a food one day, then totally reject it the next. You might also notice that your 23-month-old baby only seems to want one food for a period of time. (Remember how we said toddlers this age love repetition?) This is also quite common, but it’s helpful to continue to offer a healthy variety of food to your tot anyway.

How much should my 23-month-old eat?

One- to 2-year-olds should be eating much like you do: Three meals per day, plus two snacks. Offer them a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein and dairy—daily.

A serving of pasta the size of a Ping-Pong ball, protein as big as four marbles, and chopped veggies or fruit around the size of four dominoes are all considered normal portions for a toddler this age.

How much milk should a 23-month-old baby drink?

One of the biggest 23-month-old milestones is moving away from drinking large amounts of milk. While milk is still important for calcium and vitamin D, too much can keep a 23-month-old baby from eating a nutritionally balanced diet. The focus should be more on healthy foods than milk, so limit milk to about 2 to 3 cups (or 16 to 24 oz.) per day.

What to feed my 23-month-old

Continue to offer your child a variety of foods at each meal and snack. Most toddlers should eat about ¾ to 1 cup of fruits and veggies, ¼ cup grains and three tablespoons of protein per day.

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 23-month-old:

23-month-old feeding schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

23-month-old won’t eat

Got a picky eater? Most toddlers do get proper nutrition when their parents serve a variety of foods—even if it doesn’t always seem that way. But, unlike adults who often eat out of habit or boredom, toddlers tend to eat only when they’re hungry. And remember: New foods are scary to your toddler. So manage your expectations; it may take inspecting new foods several times before they’ll actually taste them. Don’t force it, but continue trying, so they get used to sampling different flavors.

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23-Month-Old Sleep

Whether your child loves or hates bedtime, you probably have questions about what's typical when it comes to sleep for a 23-month-old—and what to do when there are hiccups in the usual sleep routine.

How much sleep does a 23-month-old need?

Most 23-month-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

23-month-old sleep schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

23-month-old sleep regression

Is your 23-month-old waking up at night? Sleep regression can happen because of teething, separation anxiety or a change in sleep routine. To get back to the usual snoozing routine, it's important to know the root of the problem, so you can help your child get through it. Stick with the usual bedtime routine and set limits (such as no sleeping in your room) that will help your child get back on track.

Activities for a 23-Month-Old

Now that your tot is steady on their feet, there are lots of ways to have fun and stay active together. Looking for things to do with a 23-month-old? Some fun activities, games and toys for a 23-month-old include:

  • Walking games. A game, like “Let’s try not to step on the cracks,” can keep your toddler on their own two feet when you’re out and about without the stroller.
  • Pull toys. Your child is walking more smoothly than they did months ago and is probably ready to pull a wagon or a wheeled toy with a handle.
  • Tricycle or balance bike. Look for a trike, bike or scooter built for a 2-year-old, so your child can learn to pedal or scoot. Make sure your 23-month-old always wears a helmet on any ride!

23-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • Plan your child's second birthday party and send out invitations.
  • Time for a third (or fourth) round of childproofing, now that your kid is an experienced climber and more thorough explorer.
  • Keep a quote book. Now that your child is saying sentences, you'll want to write down the funniest and smartest lines as a sweet memento of the toddler years.
  • Serve plenty of iron-rich foods to your 23-month-old to ensure they get the iron they need. Foods like tofu, poultry, meat, fish, beans and enriched grains are great choices. Double-up the nutritional benefit by serving iron-rich foods and options high in vitamin C, which helps bodies absorb iron better. Tomatoes, broccoli, oranges and strawberries are all excellent sources of vitamin C.

Make a list of any questions you might have about 23-month-old milestones, behaviors or eating and sleeping habits to bring with you to your child’s 24-month pediatrician checkup. If you have any concerns about developmental delays, make sure you bring them up during the appointment.

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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Your toddler is 2 years old. Happy birthday!

Your 24-month-old is likely playing pretend, sorting stuff into categories and is hip to simple abstract concepts (like “sooner” vs. “later”). Your toddler is also getting more verbal every day, is sometimes whiny and may be having some separation anxiety. They like to do things for themselves and, of course, can throw a doozy of a tantrum. The fun part: They’re probably big on showing other emotions too, like love and joy, and are absolutely smitten with you.

As your 24-month-old baby continues to grow, you might find their confidence growing too. This can mean becoming braver about trying new things—and about testing your parental limits too.

2-year-old weight and height

Wondering how much should a 2-year-old weigh? Average weight for a 24-month-old is 26.5 pounds for girls and 27.5 pounds for boys, according to the World Health Organization.

How tall is the average 2-year-old? Average height for a 24-month-old baby is 33.5 inches for girls and 34.2 inches for boys.

At the two-year checkup, the pediatrician will weigh and measure your 24-month-old to make sure their growth is following a healthy upward curve on the growth chart.

2-year-old milestones

You’re probably starting to notice that your 24-month-old baby is less of a baby and more of a toddler these days as they check off more and more skills on the list of 24-month-old milestones. Here are some milestones your 24-month-old may have hit or may be working on:

  • Motor skills. Your 24-month-old can probably walk up the stairs one foot at a time, walk down the stairs and jump with both feet at once. You’ll notice your 24-month-old is running well and kicking a ball pretty accurately too. Help your child develop their 24-month-old milestones by playing outside with them and going for short walks.
  • Speech. Your toddler may be saying 50 words or as many as 100, and you can probably understand your kiddo at least half the time now, which should help cut down on tantrums. They may even be saying two-word phrases—but it's not usually worrisome if they aren’t yet. They should be able to use a noun plus a verb, refer to themselves by name and verbally identify three pictures. The pediatrician will probably check for hearing problems if your child isn’t talking as much as expected.
  • Teething. A toddler's upper second molars tend to poke through around the second birthday, causing some teething discomfort.
  • Potty training. The second birthday is a popular time to start ramping up potty-training efforts if your child is showing signs of readiness. This may include telling you they have to go, wanting their dirty or wet diaper changed, showing interest in the potty, being able to pull their pants up and down by themselves and/or staying dry for at least two hours in a row. Don't rush your tot if they’re not there yet; experts say potty training is likely to go most smoothly when started around 30 months.

What should a 24-month-old be able to do?

Your 24-month-old baby is becoming more coordinated and better able to communicate. You might notice that they can now turn pages on their own, scribble on a piece of paper and jump up and down. Your 24-month-old may now be able to identify different body parts and understand most two-step directions. You might also notice them copying you frequently, so do your best to set good examples.

2-year-old behavior

Have you noticed that your 24-month-old baby is full of ever-changing opinions? This can cause joyful behavior that makes you giggle, or more frustrating behaviors that test your patience. Now that your child is officially 24 months old, here’s advice on how to deal with new toddler behaviors:

  • Tantrums. Welcome to the terrible twos. Seventy-five percent of kids have tantrums by the time they hit age 2, so your child is certainly not alone in this tough phase. It can be one of the more frustrating 24-month-old milestones, but it's not always as, well, terrible as it sounds. In fact, you may start to learn what helps stop your child's tantrums. Many kids calm with hugs, some respond to redirection and others may just have to vent their frustration.
  • Separation anxiety. It's common for 2-year-olds to have a tough time separating from their parents. As hard as it is, gently but firmly show them that their tears aren't going to change things. Keep goodbyes short and sweet, and reassure your 24-month-old that you'll be back—and be specific with the details. For example, “I’ll be back after your nap.”
  • Emotions. A 2-year-old's feelings are big. Don't worry about constantly trying to cheer your tot up or convincing them not to be angry. In fact, teaching your 24-month-old that their feelings are valid is important, but they should also learn how to express them without tantruming. Teach your child how to use words to describe their feelings; helping to identify out loud when they’re mad, frustrated or sad can be useful. Acknowledgment is an important step toward learning to handle negative emotions.

Do 24-month-olds understand emotions?

A 24-month-old baby is capable of understanding the feelings of others around them, which can be one of the especially exciting 24-month-old milestones to see. You might notice your child comforting someone who is upset or crying when they see someone else cry. Encourage this empathy by talking about your own emotions with your 24-month-old and teaching them to use words to describe how they feel.

  • My 24-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 24-month-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 24-month-old is throwing up. What should I do?
  • My 24-month-old has a fever. What should I do?

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2-Year-Old Sleep

Don't be surprised if your 24-month-old’s afternoon nap gets a little bit shorter as they get older. But keep in mind that their total sleep per day should remain about the same, so you might consider putting them to bed a little earlier on days with shorter naps.

How much sleep does a 2-year-old need?

Most 24-month-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

2-year-old sleep schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

2-year-old sleep regression

Tired because your 2-year-old is waking up at night? Regression can happen when a formerly good sleeper suddenly begins waking more, throwing you for a loop. A bout of teething or illness could be the cause, or maybe a trip or holiday where your child’s sleep routine changed. To get back to the usual snoozing routine, it's important to know the root of the problem, so you can help your little one get through it. Stick with the usual bedtime routine and set limits that will help your 24-month-old get back on track.

There's one big change to your child's menu this month: Now that they’re 2 years old, talk to your pediatrician about switching them from whole milk to 1 percent or skim milk. Try to offer low-fat dairy products, such as yogurt and cheese, as well. Doctors recommend kids ages 1 to 3 get 700 mg of calcium and 600 IU of vitamin D per day, so drinking 16 oz of milk is a great source for your 24-month-old.

How much should my 24-month-old be eating?

Two-year-olds should continue to eat three meals per day, plus two snacks. Offer them a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein and dairy—daily.

A serving of pasta the size of a Ping-Pong ball, protein as big as four marbles and chopped veggies or fruit around the size of four dominoes are all considered normal portions for a toddler this age.

What to feed my 24-month-old

Variety is still key. Most toddlers should eat about ¾ to 1 cup of fruits and veggies, ¼ cup grains and three tablespoons of protein per day.

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 2-year-old:

2-year-old feeding schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

2-year-old not eating: What to do for a picky eater

Try not to worry too much if your child is turning down nutritious foods and choosing only white and brown foods. It's normal for 24-month-olds to be picky eaters—consider it their way of exercising their newfound independence. The best you can do is keep offering nutritious food options, choosing and preparing food together and modeling healthy eating behaviors for your child. They'll come around to eating other colors…eventually.

Activities for a 2-Year-Old

Your 2-year-old is probably interested in coloring, building and pretend play. You might find they’re spending more time playing independently than they used to. Keep your 24-month-old baby busy with activities that help them practice their motor skills and use their imagination.

Looking for things to do with a 2-year-old? Some fun activities, games and toys for a 2-year-old include:

  • Crayons. Two-year-olds will pretend to write if you give them crayons and paper. At two, they begin making horizontal and circular strokes with a crayon.
  • Building blocks. Duplos and other large Lego-type blocks are excellent toys to help build fine motor skills. At this age, they should be stacking five to six blocks.
  • Imaginative play. Playing with dolls, cars, trains and stuffed animals are all popular activities for 2-year-olds.

2-Year-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • Take your toddler to their two-year (24-month) checkup. Ask any questions you might have about 24-month-old milestones and make sure you tell the pediatrician if you have any concerns. During this visit, your pediatrician may order a blood test to check for iron deficiency and lead poisoning.
  • Schedule your toddler's 2 ½-year (30-month) checkup.
  • Instead of brushing teeth, let your toddler “paint” their teeth (with toothpaste, of course). This makes it way more fun.
  • Start practicing pulling pants up and down with your 24-month-old. This will make potty training significantly easier once it’s time, and will also help your 24-month-old baby become more independent.
  • Read to your 24-month-old every day and keep screen time to a minimum (ideally no more than one hour a day, per the American Academy of Pediatrics). If you do allow screen time, watch with your 24-year-old so you can monitor and discuss what they watch.
  • Thinking about baby no. 2? Try reading books together about bringing home a new sibling. Spend time around babies, so your toddler learns how to touch them gently. And, if they’ll be moving out of their crib or into a new room, make the change at least four weeks before you’re due so your child has time to adjust.

Time is flying with your 24-month-old. They’re doing something new and exciting every day. Enjoy this exhilarating—and exhausting—stage, and get rest when you can.

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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Has your 25-month-old toddler started to exert their independence? We’re talking about stomping, screaming, defying and all those other frustrating (and totally normal for this age) behaviors. Two-year-olds are possibly the most stubborn, self-centered creatures on earth. They want what they want, when they want it—usually, right now! The good news is your child’s stubborn streak means they’re going through a ton of cognitive growth. They now understand that they’re a separate person who can make things happen in the world. So of course, they’re making them happen. Rest assured that eventually, things will get less, um, dramatic.

In addition to their (sometimes frustrating) personality, your 25-month-old's body and brain continue to grow and develop in a variety of ways. You’ll notice that your 25-month-old baby can now play simple make-believe games, memorize parts of familiar books, rhymes or songs and identify and point to objects in a book. You’ll also notice your kiddo reaching new 25-month-old milestones in language, movement and socialization.

25-month-old weight and height

Average weight for a 25-month- old is around 27.1 pounds for girls and 28.4 pounds for boys. Average height is around 34 inches for girls and 34.5 inches for boys, according to the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). As always, the most important thing is that your 25-month-old baby remains where they should be on their own growth chart, which your pediatrician will track for you.

25-month-old milestones

There are some pretty exciting 25-month-old milestones that both you and your little one can look forward to. Whether baby is working on language development, playing with others or moving and shaking, your 25-month-old is doing a lot! Here are some milestones your 25-month-old may have hit or may be working on:

  • Speech. Your 25-month-old probably uses simple phrases and may be saying two- to four-word sentences. Most 2-year-olds are able to say 50 to 100 words. If your 25-month-old isn’t talking or using phrases with two words, let your pediatrician know. Some kids simply need more time; others may have a hearing problem or may benefit from an early intervention program. Help your 25-month-old work on their language development by having conversations with them, talking through your day and reading to them.
  • Potty training. If your 25-month-old is showing interest in potty training, this might be one of the most momentous 25-month-old milestones! However, while some kids are ready to begin potty training at 25 months, plenty of others aren’t. Let your child lead the way, because if you try to push the issue, you’ll just end up losing to a very stubborn toddler. Watch for signs of readiness and reward any small successes, like sitting on the potty, if only for a few moments.
  • Teething. Your child may be cutting their second molars. Also known as the two-year molars, these pearly whites tend to erupt between 20 and 33 months. And since they're big, it can be a painful process. The good news is they're the last teeth to come in until around age 6, when kids can better deal with the discomfort, so soon, you'll be done with teething woes.

What should my 25-month-old be doing?

Your 25-month-old baby is less of a baby these days and doing so much! Expect them to be able to build towers five blocks high, begin to sort shapes and colors and find things that are hidden even under multiple covers. Your little one is also beginning to copy people and repeat words they hear used in conversation—so now is definitely the time to pay close attention to what you say and do in front of your 25-month-old.

25-month-old behavior

  • Independence. Your 25-month-old likes to be in charge. Let your toddler make small decisions, like which shirt to wear today, but don’t be afraid to say no to the big things, like letting them climb the tallest slide in the park or the back of the couch. Two-year-olds need consistent, safe limits.
  • Tantrums. Mega meltdowns may still be a problem—particularly as your 25-month-old baby’s language and communication skills continue to develop. Be patient; eventually they’ll learn not to overreact so much and communicate what they need instead.
  • Defiance. At this age, there are lots of challenging behaviors that kind of depend on the child's personality. For example, some kids refuse to get into their car seat and others love to draw all over the walls while their parents are on the phone. This is where limits and firm consequences can help: "The car stops and we don’t go to the playground without the car seat buckled." "If you draw on the walls, you have to help Mommy clean them up." Give your child lots of positive attention when they’re being good, and keep the permanent markers out of reach.

Health is always a top concern for parents, and this age is no different. Some common health questions parents of 25-month-olds have are:

  • My 25-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 25-month-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 25-month-old is throwing up. What should I do?
  • My 25-month old has a cough. What should I do?
  • My 25-month-old has a fever. What should I do?

At 25 months, focus on instilling good eating habits into your child. Pediatricians recommend having meals together as a family, making healthy food choices and not worrying too much about how much food your child is eating. In other words, don't pressure them to clean their plate.

How much should my 25-month-old be eating

Two-year-olds should continue to eat three meals per day, plus two snacks. Offer your child a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein, and dairy—daily. Portion size isn't big at this age: Expect your kid to eat only ¼ to ½ as much as an adult.

How much milk should a 25-month-old drink?

Now that your child is 2 years old, they should be drinking about 16 oz of 2 percent milk. Try to offer other dairy products too, such as yogurt and cheese. Doctors recommend kids ages one to three get 700 mg of calcium per day and 600 IU of vitamin D, which helps aid calcium absorption.

If your 25-month-old can’t drink dairy milk, make sure to incorporate other sources of calcium, like fortified non-dairy milks; dark leafy greens like broccoli, bok choy or kale; cooked dried beans and fortified breads or cereals. You may also want to ask your pediatrician about supplements.

If your child is breastfeeding or gets calcium from other sources, they might not need to be drinking as much cow's milk as that. Nursing toddlers may only need to supplement with cow's milk if they’re not growing as expected on the growth chart; check with your child's pediatrician.

What to feed my 25-month-old

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 2-year-old:

25-month-old feeding schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

25-month-old eating problems

Picky eating is common at age 2, and while it's good to want your child to eat fruits and veggies, you never want to turn the dinner table into a battlefield. If you continue to offer a variety of nutritious food choices and let your 2-year-old choose from them, you're already setting them up for a healthy diet.

Toddlers tend to enjoy crunchy finger foods—like apple slices, cucumber or carrots—so try those if your child isn’t into steamed or cooked veggies. Just keep a close eye on them to avoid a choking incident.

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25-Month-Old Sleep

As with every age, sleep routines are key for 25-month-olds. Stick to your usual, soothing bedtime rituals and be firm about the rules: One or two books per night, but not 10. Twenty-five-month-olds tend to ask for a million books, songs, hugs—anything to delay bedtime. Try not to have negotiations every night; keep things consistent and fairly quick.

How much sleep does a 25-month-old need?

Most 2-year-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

25-month-old sleep schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

25-month-old sleep problems

If your 25-month-old is waking at night, it can disrupt the whole family. To encourage a good night's sleep, you'll probably want to stick to certain nighttime rules. For example, if your child wakes at night and calls you, you comfort them for just a few minutes before making an exit. Or if your toddler comes into your room, you lead them back to their bed and tuck them right back in. It's probably okay to make exceptions when your 25-month-old is sick, has a nightmare or is teething. But otherwise, it’s best to stick to your guns.

Activities for 25-Month-Old

Choose activities for your toddler that help them reach their 25-month-old milestones. Twenty-five-month-olds love to walk and ride, building gross motor skills, use their hands (which develops fine motor skills) and have new fun experiences that help them learn about the world. So what to do with a 25-month-old? Some fun activities, games and toys for a 25-month-old include:

  • Pop-up toys. Consider a plaything like a jack-in-the-box or an activity center with buttons and switches that make characters appear. These can teach cause and effect to a 25-month-old.
  • Texture. Simple toys such as a bin of dry rice or beans, sand in a sandbox or Play-Doh let your child manipulate things with their hands. And they learn about size and quantity by filling up different-sized containers.
  • Musical instruments. A toy piano, drum or xylophone will allow your kid to experiment with sound.
  • Outings. Take your child to the park, pet store, aquarium or train station to experience new places and sights.
  • Pushing and riding toys. A toy lawnmower, doll stroller, tricycle or wagon are fun for an on-the-go 25-month-old.

25-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

It's normal for a 2-year-old to regress and want to be carried more often. Try to make trips fun by giving your child a "big kid" job, like holding a (light) bag of groceries while they walk. And consider having an umbrella stroller on hand for particularly stubborn moments.

  • Let your 25-month-old practice independence by doing things on their own. Let your child brush their own teeth first, try getting dressed on their own or mix ingredients while you’re cooking. It might be messier and will definitely take longer, but you’ll be giving your 25-month-old baby the opportunity to gain key skills and confidence.
  • Don’t feel like playing with your kid? That's totally okay. Get them started on a bit of pretend play and then cook dinner or get other tasks done within their line of sight, while periodically checking on them. Asking your 25-month-old what they’re doing in their game makes them feel like you’re involved, but still allows you to get things done.
  • One of the most exciting (and sometimes frustrating) 25-month-old milestones is moving your child from a crib to a toddler bed. It can sometimes be a tough transition, but if your child is consistently climbing out of the crib, it's time. Some people might recommend using a "crib tent" to discourage climbing but they're not considered safe. A bed with rails, a low-to-the-ground toddler bed or even a mattress on the floor are much better options.

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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Your 26-month-old toddler is becoming quite the little joker, enjoying silly things and making jokes of their own. By 26 months, most kids have a vocabulary of 50 words or more and can combine two words into a simple sentence, like “Mommy eat” or “More cracker.” Keep on chatting and your kid will keep learning. If they aren’t saying anything yet or if strangers can’t understand anything your child says, it’s a good idea to check in with their pediatrician just to make sure everything’s okay. Every kid reaches their 26-month-old milestones at their own pace, but developmental delays that are caught early can be more easily overcome.

Your toddler is growing so much—it’s amazing to watch them work toward mastering their 26-month-old milestones. Your little one is practicing balancing, improving their language skills and getting in touch with their wild imaginations. Two-year-olds all grow and develop at different rates, but as long as yours continues to stay on their own growth curve (which your pediatrician is plotting on your child’s growth chart) and learn new words and skills, there's probably nothing to be concerned about.

26-month-old weight and height

Average weight for a 26-month-old is around 27.4 pounds for girls and 28.7 pounds for boys. Average height is around 34.3 inches for girls and 34.8 inches for boys, according to the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). Check in with your pediatrician to make sure your 26-month-old baby is where they should be on their own growth chart.

26-month-old milestones

Get ready for some 26-month-old milestones that will make your baby seem like a big kid. Some toddlers may be slower to gain certain skills and quicker to pick up others, but here are some milestones your 26-month-old may have hit or may be working on:

  • Speech. Your little chatterbox may be using two-word sentences and probably has a rapidly increasing vocabulary. They follow simple instructions and can copy actions and words. Doesn't sound familiar? At 26 months old, speech development can vary widely from child to child, so rest assured, they’ll likely reach their 26-month-old milestones on their own timeline. But a 26-month-old who is not talking should definitely be evaluated, as a hearing problem could be causing the speech delay, or your child might need a little extra help from speech therapy. Encourage speech development by having conversations with your 26-month-old throughout the day.
  • Potty training. If your child is using the potty, you have reached one of the most exciting 26-month-old milestones, and it probably feels like a huge victory! (Congrats!) But know that potty training setbacks can happen. If your child is having a lot of accidents, it simply means the potty training process isn't over yet. Potty training a 26-month-old doesn't happen overnight. Remember that every time your 26-month-old baby has an accident, they’re learning from it. Keep the process positive by praising successes and helping clean up (without making a big deal about it) when they don’t make it to the bathroom. Don’t t fret if your child hasn’t started potty training yet; the average age for potty training is about 30 months.
  • Teething. Your child may be cutting their second molars. Also known as the 2-year molars, these pearly whites tend to erupt between 20 and 33 months. And since they're big, it can be a painful process. The good news is they're the last teeth to come in until around age 6, when kids can better deal with the discomfort, so soon, you'll be done with teething woes. If your 26-month-old is in pain, give them extra snuggles and a refrigerated teething ring or damp washcloth to chew on.

What Should My 26-Month-Old Be Doing?

Get ready to keep up with your 26-month-old baby! Your little one is itching to move, so head to the park, spend time in the yard or try a children’s museum if the weather is crummy. All this activity helps your 26-month-old practice their gross motor skills, burn off energy, build up their physical confidence and learn important safety limits.

26-month-old behavior

  • Asking questions. Get ready to field questions about everything. Your kid now has the communication skills to ask, which is pretty thrilling—but it's also normal to feel a little exhausted when you’re constantly getting peppered with questions from your 26-month-old. Try to keep up the answers, though, because you’re helping your kiddo to learn.
  • Concentration. Your child probably concentrates so much on playing that they may not even want to take a break for meals. To ease the transition between activities, give your kiddo a heads-up (and subsequent reminders) that it will be time to take a break soon. This can help minimize tantrums for your 26-month-old.
  • Biting. It's common for 26-month-olds to bite, hit or otherwise hurt others. Some kids pick the behavior up at daycare or start exhibiting it all on their own. When your kid bites or hits, make it clear to them that this is not acceptable behavior. Comforting the hurt child—not the biter or hitter—can help teach your child empathy and avoids rewarding negative behavior with the attention that your toddler might be craving. (Instead, find other positive moments throughout the day to shower them with your focused attention.)
  • Play. Your child can probably find a hidden object, sort items (by size or color) and likes to use their imagination (that’s right, your 26-month-old can now participate in pretend play!). A 26-month-old baby can also be pretty funny, so don’t be surprised if your kid plays a joke on you by pretending to fall.

Health is always a top concern for parents, and this age is no different. Some common health questions parents of 26-month-olds have are:

  • My 26-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 26-month-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 26-month-old is throwing up. What should I do?
  • My 26-month old has a cough. What should I do?
  • My 26-month-old has a fever. What should I do?

Even if your 26-month-old wants to stick to a firm menu of three to four favorite foods, continue to offer them new flavors and textures. Don't sweat it if they don't warm to the idea right away, but keep trying to get your child used to at least tasting new things on their plate.

How much should my 26-month-old be eating

Two-year-olds should continue to eat three meals per day, plus two snacks. Offer your child a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein and dairy—daily. Portion size isn't big at this age: Expect your kid to eat only ¼ to ½ as much as an adult.

How much milk should a 26-month-old be drinking?

Now that your child is 2 years old, they should be drinking 1 percent or skim milk. Try to offer dairy products too, such as yogurt and cheese. Doctors recommend kids ages one to 3 get 700 mg of calcium per day and 600 IU of vitamin D to help aid calcium absorption. Give your 26-month-old 16 to 24 oz of milk per day, but no more. If you’re concerned your kiddo isn’t getting the right nutrients, talk to your pediatrician about supplements.

What to feed my 26-month-old

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 2-year-old:

26-month-old feeding schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

26-month-old eating problems

Picky eating is common among 26-month-olds, so you might find yourself wondering whether your child should be taking vitamins. Talk to your child's pediatrician to be sure. Some recommend iron supplements, since tots tend not to get enough of the nutrient. Fiber may also be a concern, particularly if your 26-month-old tends to get constipated. In most cases, though, staying hydrated and getting enough fruit and veggies might be all your child needs to get their digestive system working properly.

Product Recommendations for Your 26-Month-Old

26-Month-Old Sleep

Two-year-olds seem to get more sleep than adults do, but they also tend to wake up more often. So it's important to teach kids how to fall back to sleep on their own—without help—after they've woken. This means always putting your child to bed while tired but not asleep. Letting them drift off on their own helps them to learn to again when they wake up at 2 a.m.

How much sleep does a 26-month-old need?

Most 2-year-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

26-month-old sleep schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

26-month-old sleep problems

If you've moved your 26-month-old from a crib to a bed, you may find the adjustment challenging. After all, they can now get out of bed at pretty much any time of night—and many kids do at first. Keep praising your child when they sleep in their bed for long stretches—and keep leading them back to bed when they wake at night.

Activities for 26-Month-Old

Your 26-month-old is exploring the world through play. Keep up the fun by enjoying activities together, but also encourage your 26-month-old to stretch their imagination while playing on their own. Give your child opportunities to play with other kids too, to help develop social skills. So what to do with a 26-month-old? Some fun activities, games and toys for a 26-month-old include:

  • Coloring. Your 26-month-old probably loves scribbling back-and-forth. They’ll do best with big, bulky crayons they can grasp in their fists. Your child probably won’t have the dexterity to hold a writing utensil correctly until they’re closer to 4 years old.
  • Hide and seek. Now your child can find hidden objects, so have fun hiding a favorite teddy bear or action figure and then looking for it together.
  • Easy art projects. Use a simple cardboard box. Together, you can decorate it, and then, with a little imagination, the box can become a house, spaceship or wagon!
  • Books. As you're reading, you don't have to stick with the words on the page. You can ask your child what color the bear is or what they think will happen next. This makes for fun conversations that get your 26-month-old critically thinking and using their imagination.

26-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • Why? How? When? Your 26-month-old is probably asking a lot of questions right now. Answer them simply and briefly—and know it's totally okay to say you don't know and suggest you find a book on the topic at the library later. You'll both learn a thing or two.
  • A 26-month-old baby will test boundaries to assert their independence and learn what’s allowed. Whether you’re establishing rules about how to play or what to do when crossing the street, make sure you set clear, consistent limits so that your 26-month-old knows what to expect.
  • Instill confidence in your 26-month-old by letting them try things—and fail—on their own. Let them pour their own water and put on their own shoes. They may be pleased with the results, even if most of the water is on the floor and their shoes are on backwards! If they’re not, encourage them to try again when things don’t go as planned. The practice will help your 26-month-old build important skills, learn to try again when they struggle and to be proud when they succeed!
  • Experts say kids can only stay still for approximately three to five minutes per year of age, so you've got a whopping six to 10 minutes of stillness in your 2-year old. Curb your expectations. If you're going to a restaurant, a play or some other event, bring lots of snacks and activities, but also don't be surprised if you have to leave really (really) early.
  • Upset? It's okay to show emotion in front of your 26-month-old, especially if you're explaining your feelings to them. It's good for your toddler to understand that it’s normal to have a wide range of emotions. You can also talk through what you do to feel better, whether it’s asking for a hug, taking deep breaths or finding some alone time to calm down.

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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Have you noticed your 27-month-old acting differently when they’re outside of your home? Maybe your usually outgoing child hides behind your legs when strangers are around, or maybe they’re an angel at daycare and a troublemaker at home. This inconsistency is completely normal at this age. Two-year-olds adapt their behavior to the environment and the people around them. Unfortunately for you, the fact that your child trusts you means they’re more likely to feel comfortable enough to test your limits and push your buttons.

As your 27-month-old grows, learns new skills and meets new 27-month-old milestones, you'll find them making a ton of changes. They’ll want to practice doing things on their own, but your kiddo also might get frustrated when things don’t go as they planned.

27-month-old weight and height

Average weight for a 27-month-old is around 27.8 pounds for girls and 29.0 pounds for boys. Average height is around 34.6 inches for girls and 35.1 inches for boys, according to the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). Ask your pediatrician if your 27-month-old’s growth is on track for their growth chart.

27-month-old milestones

At this stage, 27-month-old milestones are all about a growing sense of independence and expanding vocabulary. Here are some milestones your 27-month-old may have hit or may be working on:

  • Speech. While your 27-month-old may be saying more words, they might not all be easy to understand. Two-year-olds commonly have trouble properly making certain letter sounds (th, l or s, for example). Stuttering and mixing up the order of words within a sentence are typical too. But these aren't usually considered issues at this age—your child is still learning! A 27-month-old baby who’s not talking, on the other hand, probably needs some extra help. Discuss any speech concerns with your pediatrician.
  • Potty training. Haven't started potty training? The time might be now! One study found potty training was most successful with kids when started between 27 and 32 months of age. This is the time frame kids tend to be mature enough to get it, but not old enough to want to resist too much.
  • Teething. Your child may be cutting their second molars. Also known as the 2-year molars, these pearly whites tend to erupt between 20 and 33 months. And since they're big, it can be a painful process. The good news is they're the last teeth to come in until around age 6, when kids can better deal with the discomfort, so soon, you'll be done with teething woes.

What should my 27-month-old be doing?

Your 27-month-old should be interested in trying new things and exploring! That can include major 27-month-old milestones like potty training, but it can also include more confident behavior like playing farther away from you at the park. Expect lots of chatter and pretend play from your 27-month-old baby.

What should a 27-month-old be saying?

Speech development varies quite a bit, but your 27-month-old should be saying about 50 words by now, and adding new words each month. Your toddler should also be using two-word sentences like, “more banana” or “go now.” If your child has not yet reached these 27-month-old milestones, check in with your pediatrician to see whether your child should be evaluated for hearing problems or a speech delay.

27-month-old behavior

  • Love of repetition. Your 27-month-old does things over and over again—a little scientist at work, they’re trying to see if X always leads to Y. Predictable, repetitive results help them feel secure in the world. So even though you might be sick of reading Goodnight Moon, your toddler is most definitely not. Go ahead and read it again.
  • Parallel play. Your child might not play with other kids just yet, but they may enjoy playing alongside other kids doing the same activity. You may notice your 27-month-old copying other kids too.
  • Fear of strangers or places. You might find your 27-month-old has a fear of the doctor or barber. Some of this may be due to an active imagination. It may help to bring your child to the office or salon when they don't have an appointment, so they can get used to being there when scissors and shots aren't involved.

Health is always a top concern for parents, and this age is no different. Some common health questions parents of 27-month-olds have are:

  • My 27-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 27-month-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 27-month-old is throwing up. What should I do?
  • My 27-month old has a cough. What should I do?
  • My 27-month-old has a fever. What should I do?

When feeding a 27-month-old, don't focus too much on quantity, and don't sweat it if every meal your toddler eats isn't perfectly balanced. In fact, experts recommend looking at toddler nutrition over the course of a week, not a day, when evaluating whether or not your kid is eating right.

How much should my 27-month-old be eating

Two-year olds should continue to eat three meals per day, plus two snacks. Offer your child a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein and dairy—daily. Portion size isn't big at this age: Expect your kid to eat only ¼ to ½ as much as an adult.

How much milk should a 27-month-old drink

Your 2-year-old should now be drinking 1 percent or skim milk rather than whole milk. Try to offer other dairy products too, such as yogurt and cheese. Doctors recommend kids ages one to three get 700 mg of calcium per day and 600 IU of vitamin D, which helps aid calcium absorption. Give your 27-month-old baby 16 oz of milk per day, but no more than 24 oz so it doesn’t affect their appetite.

What to feed my 27-month-old

Getting a 27-month-old to eat a balanced diet can be tricky. Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 2-year-old:

27-month-old feeding schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

27-month-old eating problems

Some 27-month-olds may seem more interested in snacks than they are in meals. If you can't beat 'em, join 'em! Make sure the snack choices you give your toddler are healthy and well balanced. That way, you'll know that your child is getting good nutrition throughout the day, even if they barely touch their dinner.

Product Recommendations for Your 27-Month-Old

27-Month-Old Sleep

Consistency is key for helping a 27-month-old have healthy sleep habits. So stick to a usual bedtime and routine, and continue to set aside time for a daily nap.

How much sleep does a 27-month-old need?

Most 2-year-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

27-month-old sleep schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

27-month-old sleep problems

Is your 27-month-old baby resisting naps? Stick to the schedule. Even if your 2-year-old seems like they want to stop napping, they still need up to 14 hours total sleep per day to feel fully rested. And a routine is the best way to make it happen. So make sure you're blocking out the same quiet time each day for a nap at home.

Activities for a 27-Month-Old

While your 27-month-old plays, they’re learning and developing their cognitive and motor skills. Help your kiddo meet their 27-month-old milestones by giving them plenty of opportunities for enriching, educational-based play. So what to do with a 27-month-old? Some fun activities, games and toys for a 27-month-old include:

  • Puzzles and latch boards. Your child will learn about shapes and hone their fine motor skills by assembling and latching wood pieces into place.
  • Push-and-pull toys. Toy shopping carts and mini wagons give your toddler a chance to work on gross motor skills.
  • Lacing. Wood shapes with holes for laces, or big beads with yarn, are fun projects to keep 27-month-olds busy.

27-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • Try to avoid power struggles with your toddler. There are going to be a lot of things you can't force your child to do (eat, sleep and use the potty, to name a few). Save the discipline for when your child really breaks the rules, such as biting.
  • One of the most challenging behaviors reported by parents with a 27-month-old is whining—which can be super-frustrating for you, but it’s usually the result of frustration your child is experiencing. Even highly verbal 2-year-olds don’t have the communication skills to fully express their feelings and desires. Kids can resort to whining especially when they’re tired or hungry. Pay attention to when the whining happens most (is it when your 27-month-old is tired or right before dinner?) so you can try to head it off. When your 27-month-old baby does whines, encourage them to use their “big kid voice” and offer positive reinforcement when your child asks for something politely.
  • Work on problem-solving skills with your 27-month-old to help them learn to cope with frustration and find solutions of their own. (This can help the whining too!) If you notice your little one is having difficulty with something, help them work on solving the problem. Example: “I see that you’re trying to carry that broom through the doorway, but it doesn’t seem to fit, does it? Do you think there’s a way to make it fit?”
  • Switching to a big bed? Some parents ease the transition by letting a child nap in the bed for a few days before trying it for a whole night.
  • Now that your child is getting more independent, find ways to focus on you. Make more plans to get coffee or a meal with friends, join a club or take a class in a topic or hobby that interests you.

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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Your 28-month-old toddler is probably moving all over the place—they can now run and climb and move astonishingly fast. All this developing athleticism means that even though you baby-proofed when your child was little, you’ll want to do another round.

Every day is a new adventure with your 28-month-old baby. They’re likely talking up a storm, running around and looking to help you with everyday tasks. As your toddler continues to grow and develop, you’re probably wondering what 28-month-old milestones your child should be hitting. From sleep schedules to meal ideas, keep reading to learn what you can expect during this next month of your toddler’s life.

Your 28-month-old is probably changing quickly, developing new skills and some adorable—albeit sometimes challenging—personality traits.

28-month-old weight and height

Average weight for a 28-month-old is around 28.1 pounds for girls and 29.3 pounds for boys. Average height is around 35 inches for girls and 35.4 inches for boys, according to the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

28-month-old milestones

“What should my 28-month-old be doing?” you ask? While every child is different, the following are some 28-month milestones you can start keeping an eye out for:

  • Speech. When it comes to language, your child is catching on quickly, learning new words at an astounding rate. Their grammar, on the other hand, still needs a little work. Don’t sweat it! You can gently correct, but over time they'll learn how to use language properly by listening to others. At this age, they should be repeating two digits, identifying and naming 10 to 15 pictures and using pronouns, such as “I,” “me” and “you.” A 28-month-old who’s not talking may need early intervention for a little extra speech help, so talk to the pediatrician if you suspect your child is behind verbally.
  • Potty training. If your child is showing signs of readiness, now may be a good time to potty train. Some parents say that potty training a 28-month-old girl and potty training a 28-month-old boy can be quite different. Boys are notorious for taking a bit longer to potty train—but that's not always the case. Start your boy learning to pee while sitting down, since good aim takes some time and practice. If you have a girl, teach her to wipe carefully from front to back.
  • Teething. Your 28-month-old child may be teething with their second molars. Also known as the 2-year molars, these pearly whites tend to erupt between 20 and 33 months. And since they're big, it can be a painful process. The good news is they're the last teeth to come in until around age 6, when kids can better deal with the discomfort, so soon, you'll be done with teething woes.

28-month-old behavior

  • Extreme personality traits. Some 28-month-olds show fear of trying new things, and others display tons of independence.
  • Trouble with transitions. It might be tough for your kid to stop playing and get dressed, or to quit splashing in that puddle and walk the rest of the way to school. Lots of patience and verbal warnings can help you get your 28-month-old moving along.
  • Separation anxiety. If your child is going to preschool or daycare, they may have trouble saying goodbye to you in the mornings. Keep drop-offs short and sweet. Most kids are okay soon after their parents leave, even though they put on a pretty good show (of tears) to try to get them to stay. The good news is that separation anxiety will soon start to fade if it hasn’t already.
  • A desire to help. Your toddler can probably now follow directions—with up to four steps—and likes to pitch in and help with chores or errands.

Health is always a top concern for parents, and this age is no different. Some common health questions parents of 28-month-olds have are:

  • My 28-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 28-month-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 28-month-old is throwing up. What should I do?
  • My 28-month old has a cough. What should I do?
  • My 28-month-old has a fever. What should I do?

Your 28-month-old is probably pretty good at feeding themselves. They probably can use a fork fairly successfully, but spoons are a little trickier. It will be a while before your toddler can feed themselves a bowl of soup without making a huge mess.

How much should my 28-month-old be eating?

Two-year olds should continue to eat three meals per day, plus two snacks. Offer your child a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein and dairy—daily. Portion size isn't big at this age: Expect your kid to eat only ¼ to ½ as much as an adult.

Your 2-year-old should be drinking 1 percent or skim milk (not whole milk). Try to offer low-fat dairy products too, such as yogurt and cheese. Doctors recommend kids ages 1 to 3 get 700 mg of calcium per day. Fat should account for less than 30 percent of your toddler's daily calories.

Remember, your 28-month-old is still prone to choking, so avoid potentially hazardous foods such as whole grapes and raw carrots, and keep cutting their food into tiny pieces.

What to feed my 28-month-old

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 2-year-old:

28-month-old feeding schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

28-month-old eating problems

Want to get your 28-month-old to eat more healthy food? Get them involved in the process. Give your child choices of what to make for dinner; then plan the meal together. Go grocery shopping together and let them pick out the fruits and veggies. Encourage your kiddo to help prep (the non-dangerous parts of) the meal. Kids tend to love to stir ingredients or help their parents sprinkle in seasonings.

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28-Month-Old Sleep

Consistency is key for a 28-month-old's sleep routine. Try to stick with usual bedtimes and naptimes to keep crankiness and restlessness at bay. When something changes the routine—a special event that runs through naptime, for example—go with the flow. But try to get back on track as soon as you can.

How much sleep does a 28-month-old need?

Most 2-year-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

28-month-old sleep schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

28-month-old sleep problems

If your 28-month-old is no longer in a crib, you may find yourself having a middle-of-the-night visitor. Experts agree it's a good idea to kindly but firmly insist your child go back to sleep in their own bed. (Even though it may be tempting to allow them into yours, just this once.) Lead your toddler back to their room, tuck them in and comfort them before leaving them alone to fall asleep. This sets the precedent that your child needs to fall asleep on their own, in their own space. And it can help everyone in the family get a full night's sleep most nights.

Activities for a 28-Month-Old

Sure, there are fancy kids' play spaces, state-of-the-art toys and learning apps, but truthfully, a 28-month-old doesn't need all that. Sometimes, the best activities are the simplest ones. So what to do with a 28-month-old? Some fun activities, games and toys for a 28-month-old include:

  • Blocks. Your child may still love building with blocks. The towers are getting bigger and bigger, along with their attention span.
  • Books. Don't be surprised if your 28-month-olds asks you to read a favorite book over and over, instead of choosing something new. Kids this age still love repetition.
  • Everyday objects. Together, you and your 28-month-old can set up a backyard obstacle course using old water bottles for cones. Or build a fort out of blankets and pillows. Or build a playhouse out of a large cardboard box. Use your collective imaginations, and the fun is guaranteed to follow.

28-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • Aim to limit screen time to 15-minute increments and two hours or less total per day. Your child learns more by playing and having new experiences than they do by zoning out in front of the TV.
  • Playdate? Invite just one friend at a time. At age 2, a two-person playdate is an ideal size.
  • Let your toddler help you in the kitchen. This will encourage healthy eating habits, teach early math concepts (if you’re measuring ingredients!) and help them practice fine motor skills.
  • Be patient, as your 28-month-old baby is still learning how to verbally communicate. With this often comes pushing, shoving, hitting and grabbing when big feelings arise. Continue to encourage your child to use their words—but don’t be surprised if it takes some time for them to get the hang of it.
  • Set aside some dedicated time each day for reading, as this is a pivotal time in your toddler’s developmental growth. Studies have shown that children who were read to at a young age tend to develop a more advanced vocabulary.
  • Along with reading to your 28-month-old, introduce them to writing. Showing them their name written down can help build the association between words and their meanings. It’s too soon for your toddler to be able to write their name on their own, but it can get their wheels turning. (Not to mention, they’ll love seeing their name written on things!)
  • Don’t be surprised if your 28-month-old baby isn’t willing to share with other children. At this stage, the concept of sharing is still a bit of a stretch. That said, your toddler will eventually realize that not everything is 100 percent theirs, so continue to demonstrate how to take turns with special items like toys.
  • Keep an eye out for teething, as your 28-month-old may start developing their two-year molars. While it’s usually not as painful as the previous stages of teething, set aside some soft foods, like chilled applesauce, mashed bananas or pureed fruits and veggies to help ease any pain during mealtime.
  • Toddler-proof your home. Make sure bookcases and dressers are secured to the wall, since a climbing 2-year-old can easily cause tall, heavy furniture to topple (yikes!). Sharp or dangerous objects such as knives should be secured well out of reach; 2-year-olds are curious about everything, and they can get their hands on more than you may realize.

A 28-month-old toddler is likely to keep you on your toes! This is an especially exciting period as they continue to explore and learn about the world around them; you can sit back and observe or join in on the fun.

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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Your toddler is 29 months old! Between the ages of 2 and 3, kids exhibit a language explosion; their vocabulary undergoes massive expansion and they begin to understand its nuances. For example, your kiddo may have started using pronouns like “I” or “me.”. That’s a huge cognitive leap! Encourage your child's language development by reading to them (rhythmic and repetitive stories are a huge hit right now), sing together and chat while you play.

What other 29-month-old milestones can you expect? There are quite a few! We’re here to reveal what you can look forward to during this next month in your child’s life, and offer sleep routine advice, creative meal ideas and tips and tricks for raising a happy and healthy toddler.

As your 29-month-old grows, they're learning tons of new skills.

29-month-old weight and height

Average weight for a 29-month-old is around 28.4 pounds for girls and 29.6 pounds for boys. Average height is around 35.3 inches for girls and 35.7 inches for boys, according to the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

29-month-old milestones

Many parents wonder, “What should my 29-month-old be doing?” A lot is going on in your 29-month-old’s life right now as they continue to grow and develop each day. Your toddler is likely hitting (or working toward) these 29-month-old milestones:

  • Speech. Your 29-month-old may be speaking in sentences, but they probably aren't perfect sentences. For example, "Me jump big!" Try repeating what they’re saying in a grammatically correct way instead of pointing out that their grammar is wrong. ("Yes, you did jump so high!") A 29-month-old who’s not talking should get an evaluation from a pediatrician. Sometimes, the child is communicating and just needs more time to get the words right. Other times, they need a little help from a speech specialist.
  • Getting dressed. Your child can probably put on at least one piece of clothing by themselves—which is welcome news, after having to put every single article of clothing on your kid for almost two-and-a-half years.
  • Potty training. Know how kids learn to use the potty? By having accidents! So if you're potty training, instead of getting frustrated whenever your kid wets their underwear, think of it as one step closer to learning how to keep them dry. Encourage and praise when things go right.
  • Teething. Your 29-month-old child may be teething with their second molars. Also known as the 2-year molars, these pearly whites tend to erupt between 20 and 33 months. And since they're big, it can be a painful process. The good news is they're the last teeth to come in until around age 6, when kids can better deal with the discomfort, so soon, you'll be done with teething woes.

29-month-old behavior

  • Whining. Even if your child is highly verbal, they don't have all the words and phrases that you do, so they might rely on whining to get their point across. Don’t let your kiddo get what they want by whining; that just encourages more of it.
  • Moodiness. Your child gets cranky when they're hungry or tired, so don’t plan anything demanding (like a playdate or trip to Home Depot) close to naptime or for when they haven't eaten in a while.
  • Repetition. Your child may have favorite shows, clothes and books they want to read over and over.

Health is always a top concern for parents, and this age is no different. Some common health questions parents of 29-month-olds have are:

  • My 29-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 29-month-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 29-month-old is throwing up. What should I do?
  • My 29-month old has a cough. What should I do?
  • My 29-month-old has a fever. What should I do?

When it comes to food, as usual, it's all about balance. Sure, it's okay to let your kid have those fruit snacks or an occasional Oreo or two. But balance that out with some apple slices and thin carrot sticks.

How much should my 29-month-old be eating?

Two-year olds should continue to eat three meals per day, plus two snacks. Offer a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein and dairy—daily. Portion size isn't big at this age: Expect your kid to eat only ¼ to ½ as much as an adult.

Your 2-year-old should be drinking 1 percent or skim milk (not whole milk). Try to offer low-fat dairy products too, such as yogurt and cheese. Doctors recommend kids ages one to 3 get 700 mg of calcium per day. Fat should account for less than 30 percent of your toddler's daily calories.

What to feed my 29-month-old

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 2-year-old:

29-month-old feeding schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

29-month-old eating problems

Young kids tend to load up on sugar and fluids and may neglect the fats and proteins they need. This can result in a condition called toddler's diarrhea, in which the child gets loose, watery stools—but isn't otherwise sick—for several days straight. Prevent this condition by limiting your kid's juice intake and offering foods with plenty of fats, protein and fiber. Fresh fruits and veggies are super-important.

Product Recommendations for Your 29-Month-Old

29-Month-Old Sleep

At 29 months, the experts say your child should have a sleep routine, but you never know what's going to come up next: demands to stay up late, refusal to take a nap and even maybe some new nighttime fears. It can all throw you for a loop. But eventually, you'll all get back on track.

How much sleep does a 29-month-old need?

Most 2-year-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

29-month-old sleep schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

29-month-old sleep problems

Some 2-year-olds develop nighttime fears. Sticking to that soothing bedtime routine—free of anything potentially scary or stimulating—can help make going to bed a positive experience. It's okay to indulge your kid a bit and turn on a night light or keep the door open a crack. Give your toddler a comforting stuffed animal or blankie and reassure your child that they're safe and you're there, even when they can't see you. Some parents fill a spray bottle with water and tell their child it's a special monster repellant they use every night at bedtime. Eventually, your child will grow out of their nighttime fears—it just may take a while.

Activities for a 29-Month-Old

Your active 29-month-old just wants to have fun. Through play, they’re learning every step of the way and developing their motor skills and creativity. So what to do with a 29-month-old? Some fun activities, games and toys for a 29-month-old include:

  • Singing. They love simple sing-along songs—and if the song has accompanying motions (think "Itsy Bitsy Spider"), all the better.
  • Dancing. Play a few favorite kid-friendly songs from your playlist. Your 29-month-old probably digs a good dance party.
  • Outings. Children's museums, zoos, kids' gyms, libraries, bookstores and aquariums are all fun places to take a 29-month-old.
  • Cook or bake together. Your child can help with the safe parts—i.e., the ones that don't require knives and heat.

29-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • Beat frustration by teaching independence. Instead of telling your kid which puzzle piece goes where, help a little, and make sure they're the one to place the last piece. That will give them the confidence to try again next time.
  • Teaching your child to share can take a long time. It helps for parents to model what sharing looks like and to praise their child when they make an effort to share too.
  • Some 2-year-olds develop a fear of the water, which can make bathtime a challenge. It may ease your kiddo's anxiety to stick to a really low water level, give them fun toys and bubbles or even get in the tub with your kid. When all else fails, try a shower instead.
  • Your 29-month-old is beginning to remember things, whether that’s something that happened yesterday or a visit to Grandma’s house last week. Encourage your toddler to recall events and routines to help them exercise their memory. Ask your child what they ate for lunch that day or what step comes next after brushing their teeth each evening.
  • If you haven’t done so already, it’s important to toddler-proof your home. Remember, toddlers love to climb and get their hands into everything. Make sure dressers and bookshelves are properly secured to the wall, and keep your 29-month-old baby away from anything sharp like scissors and knives.
  • Repetition is a huge aspect of a toddler’s life right now because it provides them with a sense of comfort and control. You may find your 29-month-old baby wanting to eat the same food, wear the same clothes and say the same things every day. While developing a routine is good, it’s important to show your toddler that change is okay too.
  • Don’t be surprised if whining becomes a new thing in your home. Whining is to toddlers what crying is to babies—that is, it’s often a way they communicate frustration. While it’s sometimes unavoidable, do your best to discourage the behavior and encourage your 29-month-old to use their words instead. Letting your child get their way by whining will only perpetuate the problem.
  • Looking for new ways to discipline your toddler? Whatever you do, don’t take away (or threaten to take away) your child’s comfort item, whether that’s a favorite blanket, stuffed animal or doll. These special belongings provide a sense of security, and removing them can cause an even bigger issue in the long run.
  • Consider browsing preschools to find a 3-year-old program that might be a good fit for your child. Visit schools and talk to other parents, but don’t wait until your child reaches the three-year mark to start your research, as it can be a long and arduous process.

As your toddler hits their 29-month-old milestones, you will likely begin to feel as if you have a true big kid on your hands. Each new day brings exciting developments as they interact and engage with you and the world around them.

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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Can you believe you have a two-and-a-half year old on your hands? Where has the time gone? While the past few months (and years!) have likely flown by, we’re betting it’s been ever-so-exciting watching your 30-month-old interact with the world.

So what do you have to look forward to this month? Lots! Your toddler is probably hitting all kinds of 30-month-old milestones. Some toddlers are speaking up to 250 words at this time, and some are fully potty trained—but children grow and develop at different speeds. Keep reading to learn what you might expect around this stage, including toddler behavior, sleep routines and meal schedules.

30-Month-Old Baby Development

The 30-month checkup is when the pediatrician checks your child’s growth and development to be sure they’re making progress as expected.

30-Month-Old weight and height

Average weight for a 30-month-old is around 28.8 pounds for girls and 29.9 pounds for boys. Average height is around 35.6 inches for girls and 36.0 inches for boys, according to the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

30-month-old milestones

“What should my 30-month-old be doing?” you ask? A toddler at this age is likely hitting 30-month-old milestones left and right. Keep an eye out for the following developments:

  • Speech. At 30 months old, speech development is happening fast. It's normal for a 30-month-old’s vocabulary to be around 100 to 250 words; your child may also be using two- or three- word phrases. A 30-month-old who’s not talking may need to have a hearing evaluation and/or may need some help from an early intervention program. Discuss any concerns you may have about your child's speech development with your pediatrician.
  • Motor skills. Thirty-month-olds can usually walk up and down stairs, kick and throw a ball, jump and build a tower of at least eight blocks.
  • Teething. In a 30-month-old, teething may be happening. Also known as the 2-year molars, second molars tend to erupt between 20 and 33 months. And since they're big, it can be a painful process. The good news is they're the last teeth to come in until around age 6, when kids can better deal with the discomfort, so soon, you'll be done with teething woes.
  • Potty training. Some 30-month-olds are fully potty trained, and some aren’t ready to start yet. It all depends on your child's interest level and abilities. To potty train a 30-month-old boy or girl, your child must be able to recognize when they have to go to the bathroom and must be able to pull their pants up and down. A weekend at home without training pants could help along the process; if it doesn't, that may mean your child just needs more time. Take a break before trying again later.

30-month-old behavior

  • Tantrums. At 30 months old, tantrums are still common. But take heart: The peak time frame for tantrums tends to be between 17 and 24 months, so soon you might notice a decline in their frequency. If your child has several tantrums a day, discuss it with the pediatrician; some kids need extra help learning to calm themselves down.
  • DIY. Your child can probably undress themselves now; some 30-month-olds pull on their own pants and socks too.
  • Fickleness. Your kiddo is torn between wanting to be a big kid and wanting to be a baby. Some days, they might do things on their own, and others, they insist you do it all. Some parents find that their 30-month-olds are well behaved at school or daycare but wild at home. They may be anxious or shy around strangers too.
  • Regression. It's normal for a 2-year-old to regress in some ways, such as starting to tantrum more or having more potty accidents. Maybe your child asks for an old lovey or pacifier. This is often just a normal part of growing up, but tell the doctor about any setbacks that concern you.

Bring up any health questions or concerns to the doctor at the 30-month checkup. Some common health questions parents of 30-month-olds have are:

  • My 30-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 30-month-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 30-month-old is throwing up. What should I do?
  • My 30-month old has a cough. What should I do?
  • My 30-month-old has a fever. What should I do?

While your kid might wish they could eat the same three foods all the time, continue to offer new flavors, textures and styles of cooking. While they may not always love it, just getting them used to having new things on their plate may help your child warm up the idea of trying out different dishes.

How much should my 30-month-old be eating?

Two-year-olds should continue to eat three meals per day, plus two snacks. Offer a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein and dairy—daily. Portion size isn't big at this age: Expect your kid to eat only ¼ to ½ as much as an adult.

Your 2-year-old should be drinking 1 percent or skim milk (not whole milk). Try to offer low-fat dairy products too, such as yogurt and cheese. Doctors recommend kids ages one to 3 get 700 mg of calcium per day. Fat should account for less than 30 percent of your toddler's daily calories.

What to feed my 30-month-old

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 2-year-old:

30-month-old feeding schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

30-month-old eating problems

Picky eating may still be a big food issue at this age. The 30-month checkup with your pediatrician is the perfect time to bring up any worries you may have about your child's eating habits. The doctor will weigh and measure your child to be sure they're growing at a healthy rate and may check for an iron deficiency. Their findings may give you peace of mind that everything's A-okay, or they may prompt them to prescribe a vitamin supplement. The doctor may also give you advice on how to get your child to eat more nutritious foods.

Product Recommendations for Your 30-Month-Old

30-Month-Old Sleep

Sleep is super important for any kid, not just 30-month-olds. Kids need sleep for growth and brain development and to keep their mood in check.

How much sleep does a 30-month-old need?

Most 2-year-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

30-month-old sleep schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

30-month-old sleep problems

For a 30-month-old, sleep regression can happen. If your child was previously sleeping just fine at night but is suddenly waking, it can disrupt the whole family's routine. Some kids become fearful of the dark and some just miss their parents. If there isn't a health concern that's waking your kid, it's good to be firm about bedtime boundaries. Calm your child down, put them back to bed and try to stick to the routine as much as you can.

Some kids around this age refuse to take a nap. And honestly, there's not much you can do about it. As the saying (kind of) goes: “You can lead a kid to a bed but you can't make them sleep.” Continue to block out time each afternoon for a nap or a rest. You can tell your child it's okay to look at books quietly in their room. For some children, this is enough to bring on a nap—but others are never going back to daytime sleeping. If you find your kid really isn't napping anymore, it's okay to give up on it and start putting them to bed earlier at night.

Activities for 30-Month-Old

In a 30-month-old's eyes, playtime is just fun—but it's also helping your child develop. So what to do with a 30-month-old? Some fun activities, games and toys for a 30-month-old include:

  • Puzzles. Step back and let your child have a feeling of accomplishment by putting the pieces together on their own. Of course, you can step in and help if they're getting frustrated.
  • Coloring. Your child's dexterity is improving. They may even be able to draw some simple shapes.
  • Clay or Play-Doh. Working with their hands can help keep a wiggly toddler busy on a rainy day.

30-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • Take your toddler to their 2.5-year (30-month) checkup. Many pediatricians like to see kids around 30 months for a well-child visit. That’s because a lot of development occurs between ages 2 and 3, and it's important to check things out at the midpoint. The doctor will probably ask how many words your child says. They’ll also ask about motor skills and may even ask your child to demonstrate some of them, such as walking and jumping. This could be a fun visit!
  • There aren't typically shots at this visit, but your child may get any vaccinations they didn't get at previous appointments. The doctor may also do a blood test for iron-deficiency anemia and/or lead poisoning if this was not done during the 24-month visit.
  • To help your kiddo feel more at ease at the doctor’s, stop by the office sometime when your child doesn’t need any vaccinations or blood tests—or, after the shots, give your child time to calm down and relax. They'll leave with positive thoughts about the place, making next time less tense.
  • Schedule your child's 3-year checkup.
  • Don’t underestimate the power of reading to a 30-month-old. Toddlers at this age will likely have a favorite book and will want you to read it over and over again. Even if you’ve read the same book a million times, do it again! Reading to toddlers can help them develop more advanced and complex vocabulary and set them up for learning to read on their own (eventually).
  • It’s never too early to start teaching toddlers the concept of responsibility. The 30-month mark is the perfect time to begin introducing chores. And believe it or not, many toddlers will love the opportunity to help you do “grown-up” tasks. Start off with easy tasks, like cleaning up toys and throwing trash away.
  • Along with incorporating responsibility comes instilling rules. Yes, a toddler is likely to ask a lot of questions and push boundaries, but it’s important to stay firm and consistent. Remember, children love (and crave) routine and repetition, so continue repeating rules until your child learns.
  • Is your 30-month-old baby having trouble with separation anxiety? It’s not uncommon for children at this age to make a fuss when you leave them under someone else’s care. While it’s tempting to slip out of the house unnoticed, make sure to say goodbye to your kiddo to avoid confusion and panic when they realize you’re gone—just you don’t make a big deal out of leaving. With some time and practice, it’ll get easier for both of you.
  • Did your little one just crack a joke? Yes! Toddlers at this age are beginning to explore and develop a sense of humor. Encourage your 30-month-old baby to tell silly tales and use their imagination to make up funny scenarios. Don’t be surprised if you have a little comedian on your hands.

Your toddler is likely surprising you every day with new skills as they hit those 30-month-old milestones. It might feel like if you blink you’ll miss something, but don’t worry, you have plenty of time to enjoy your toddler’s growth and development over the coming weeks and months.

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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Welcome to the 31-month mark! There are a lot of things you can expect your toddler to be doing and accomplishing at this stage, but you’re in for plenty of surprises too. To help you gear up for and navigate this phase, we’re revealing some of the 31-month-old milestones you can keep an eye out for, plus advice for everything from picky eating to trouble sleeping. Follow along to prepare for all your adventurous little one has in store.

As with every age, the physical development of 31-month-olds can vary dramatically from child to child. The important thing, as always, is that they're growing in an upward curve and not regressing (although temporary regressions can be normal too). Think about it this way: Some kids focus on perfecting one milestone and then move on to the next. Others are working on a bunch of different things at once, so their paces are different.

31-month-old weight and height

Average weight for a 31-month-old is around 29.1 pounds for girls and 30.2 pounds for boys. Average height is around 35.8 inches for girls and 36.2 inches for boys, according to the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

31-month-old milestones

What should my 31-month-old be doing? Although each child develops at different paces, these are some 31-month-old milestones to be mindful of around this time:

  • Speech. Your 31-month-old may be saying around 100 to 250 words. They may also be using two- or three-word phrases—though it'll take them a while to use correct grammar. A 31-month-old who’s not talking or who isn't making improvements in speech may need to see a speech therapist for extra help.
  • Potty training. Thirty-one-month-olds vary in their potty skills. You might be in the throes of potty training—or your kid might have mastered the art of staying dry all day long (woo-hoo!).
  • Teething. Your 31-month-old child may be teething with their second molars. Also known as the 2-year molars, these pearly whites tend to erupt between 20 and 33 months. And since they're big, it can be a painful process. The good news is that they're the last teeth to come in until around age 6, when kids can better deal with the discomfort, so soon, you'll be done with teething woes.

31-month-old behavior

  • Saying no. Two-and-a half-year-olds are notorious for saying no to just. About. Everything. Try not to pose questions with yes or no answers. Instead, give your kid two choices you’re comfortable with, and let them pick.
  • Tantrums, whining and screaming. This all may stress you out, but some experts say the best way to deal with these undesirable behaviors is to calmly but firmly set your boundary (“it’s not time to eat cookies”) and don’t give in. When your toddler isn’t whining, spend some time focusing your attention solely on your child.
  • Stress. When your 31-month-old is stressed, you may notice a change in personality, regression (in things like potty training or thumb-sucking), asking to go home or just plain resistance. Step back and take some time to comfort your child. More one-on-one time or less hectic days may help.

Health is always a top concern for parents, and this age is no different. Some common health questions parents of 31-month-olds have are:

  • My 31-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 31-month-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 31-month-old is throwing up. What should I do?
  • My 31-month old has a cough. What should I do?
  • My 31-month-old has a fever. What should I do?

At 31 months, some might assume you'd have a firm grasp of your child's likes and dislikes. But honestly, they're still figuring it out themselves. So it's totally normal for your toddler to ask for seconds of broccoli one day and then refuse to eat it the next. Just keep offering the healthy stuff and try not to push them into eating it.

How much should my 31-month-old be eating?

Two-year-olds should continue to eat three meals per day, plus two snacks. Offer a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein and dairy—daily. Portion size isn't big at this age: Expect your kid to eat only ¼ to ½ as much as an adult.

Your 2-year-old should be drinking 1 percent or skim milk (not whole milk). Try to offer low-fat dairy products too, such as yogurt and cheese. Doctors recommend kids ages one to 3 get 700 mg of calcium per day. Fat should account for less than 30 percent of your toddler's daily calories.

What to feed my 31-month-old

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 2-year-old:

31-month-old feeding schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

31-month-old eating problems

If it were up to a 31-month-old, they'd probably overdo it with the juice. It's true that fruit juices offer some of the vitamins and minerals of fruit, but too much juice can cause unhealthy weight gain, malnourishment and tooth decay. That's because juice can have a lot of calories (and sugar) but not a lot of nutrition.

If you choose to introduce your child to juice, limit it 4 oz or less each day. Stick with 100 percent juice, and look for fruit-and-veggie blend juices. Some parents like to mix half a cup of juice with half a cup of water to prevent going overboard. Keep in mind, children are perfectly fine consuming just water and milk!

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31-Month-Old Sleep

Bedtime with a 31-month-old can be a challenge. This is where sticking to a routine and setting certain boundaries (like no getting out of bed except to use the potty) can help. It may seem like a struggle every single night—even when you're doing everything right—but eventually your kid will get it and stop protesting so much. (It just might take a while.)

How much sleep does a 31-month-old need?

Most 2-year-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

31-month-old sleep schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

31-month-old sleep problems

Switching from a crib to a big-kid bed may mean you have an occasional middle-of-the-night visitor. If you want to prevent night waking from becoming a habit, keep leading your child back to their own bed and tucking them in. Eventually, they'll understand the boundaries.

Activities for 31-Month-Old

When they're not being super-stubborn, 31-month-olds can be wonderful playmates. Take some time to play together. So what to do with a 31-month-old? Some fun activities, games and toys for a 31-month-old include:

  • Pretend play. Your 31-month-old may be obsessed with dolls or stuffed animals. Don’t prevent them from pretending—play along! You’ll honor their creativity.
  • Roll a ball. A simple game of “roll the ball on the floor” is fun for a 31-month-old and a great bonding activity. If they're getting good at the game, you can work your way up to a full-fledged game of catch.
  • Indoor parade. Rainy day? Put on a parade! Play some music and march along. Then get creative, taking turns copying each other's backward steps, skips, and jumps.

31-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • Your 31-month-old still thrives on routine, so keep nap and mealtimes as consistent as you can from day to day.
  • Midday slumber is more important than ever right now. Kids who don’t get enough sleep during the day are often overtired at bedtime, which makes getting them to wind down harder (the irony!). At this age, one two-hour nap after lunch usually does the trick.
  • Unfortunately, bedtime issues are par for the course at the 31-month-old stage. Does your child have a hard time staying in bed at night? Join the club! Plenty of activity during the day may help your child to sleep more soundly at night. Also, remember that toddlers crave routine, so stick to the same bedtime schedule every night.
  • Need to change your child’s bedtime? Start early and adjust it gradually—by increments of around 10 minutes each day—to get them to adapt more easily.
  • Along with sleep issues might come a fear of bedtime. If your child is afraid of the dark (or monsters), you may have to get creative. Some parents swear by Monster Spray, aka a squirt bottle filled with water you can use to "ward off invading monsters."
  • Don’t be alarmed if your 31-month-old is developing some picky eating habits. It’s not uncommon for children to suddenly hate their favorite foods from one day to the next. Be patient, get creative with meals and keep a variety of foods on hand at all times.
  • Is your toddler acting shy around others? It could just be a phase or a part of their developing personality. Encourage them to engage with others but never force them—respect your child’s boundaries. If you’re concerned about excessively shy tendencies, speak with your pediatrician.
  • This stage is often when 31-month-olds develop an imaginary friend. This is totally normal behavior. Allow your toddler to explore this friendship and sense of imagination and creativity.
  • Continue to teach and enforce good habits, such as handwashing and toothbrushing. Toddlers love being self-sufficient and doing tasks, so you can have fun with these while teaching your 31-month-old baby good habits and hygiene.
  • Read to your toddler! Reading is extremely important at this time, as it can have a positive effect on your child’s developing vocabulary. Toddlers usually have a favorite book by this age, so don’t be surprised if your kiddo wants to read the same story every night. (Just roll with it.)

Can you believe your toddler is nearly 3 years old? Time flies, but there is so much to look forward to during the 31-month-old phase and beyond. Your toddler is getting bigger and smarter every day. And trust us, they have plenty of surprises up their sleeve in the coming months to keep you on your toes.

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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You’ve got a walking, talking, very opinionated 32-month-old on your hands, and what could be better? Your toddler is likely making friends, working on potty training and maybe even learning to ride a tricycle. You may also notice sleep resistance, bad manners and picky eating at this stage. Don’t worry—this is totally normal for a budding 32-month-old baby.

To help you understand what to expect and how to handle certain situations, keep reading for tips, tricks and advice on how to navigate life with a 32-month-old. We discuss what 32-month-old milestones you should be looking out for and what kind of new behaviors you might begin noticing. Follow along so you won’t be caught off guard this month!

In addition to potty training, there are a bunch of other milestones and skills your growing child is working on this month.

32-month-old weight and height

Average weight for a 32-month old is around 29.4 pounds for girls and 30.5 pounds for boys. Average height is around 36.1 inches for girls and 36.5 inches for boys, according to the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

32-month-old milestones

“What should my 32-month-old be doing?” you ask? There is so much to look forward to during this stage. You can expect your toddler to hit some of these 32-month-old milestones around this time:

  • Speech. Thirty-two-month-old speech development is happening fast. Your child may be using pronouns correctly and understands how to follow directions with multiple steps.
  • Motor skills. Kids this age are getting good at walking up and down stairs. Your child may be able to draw a shape or two, put together a simple puzzle, jump and pedal a trike.
  • Teething. You may be experiencing your kid's last bout of teething, with the 2-year molars making their appearance around this age.
  • Potty training. If you haven't started potty training your 32-month-old, now might be the time. In a study, researchers found that the number one factor that affected potty training success was starting between 27 and 32 months (aka now). Obviously, every child is different, but kids older than yours tend to be more resistant to the process.

32-month-old behavior

  • Bad manners. Sharing and being polite might still be tough for a kid this age, but keep using “please” and “thank you” in conversation, and talking up the concept of taking turns. Be patient—they'll get it in time.
  • Friendship. A 32-month-old tends to be really interested in other kids, and may have started making friends.
  • Shyness. Feeling intimidated or sensitive in social situations is normal in a 2-year-old. For some kids, it's simply part of their personality. Even if you're a social butterfly, show your shy child empathy, and help them get accustomed to unfamiliar environments. Avoid labeling your kid as "shy"—it's something they may simply outgrow, and you don't want to make them start to believe it.

Health is always a top concern for parents, and this age is no different. Some common health questions parents of 32-month-olds have are:

  • My 32-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 32-month-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 32-month-old is throwing up. What should I do?
  • My 32-month old has a cough. What should I do?
  • My 32-month-old has a fever. What should I do?

Calcium, iron and fiber are a few nutrients toddlers tend not to get enough of. Experiment with different foods that deliver them—such as broccoli, spinach, dark meat turkey, raisins and pinto beans—to see which your child enjoys.

How much should my 32-month-old be eating?

Two-year-olds should continue to eat three meals per day, plus two snacks. Offer a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein and dairy—daily. Portion size isn't big at this age: Expect your kid to eat only ¼ to ½ as much as an adult.

Your 2-year-old should be drinking 1 percent or skim milk (not whole milk). Try to offer low-fat dairy products too, such as yogurt and cheese. Doctors recommend kids ages one to 3 get 700 mg of calcium per day. Fat should account for less than 30 percent of your toddler's daily calories.

What to feed my 32-month-old

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 2-year-old:

32-Month-Old Feeding Schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

32-month-old eating problems

Can a 2-year-old have a feeding disorder? Yes, it's possible. While picky eating is typical for this age, there are a few behaviors that fall into the category of a feeding disorder. For a variety of reasons—food aversions or refusing to eat, for example—these kids may not eat enough to gain weight at a healthy rate or may even lose weight.

Feeding disorders are more common among kids who have developmental delays, but they can happen with any child. If you suspect your child has a feeding disorder, get an evaluation from your pediatrician. They may refer your child to a dietician, a psychiatrist or psychologist, a speech language pathologist, an occupational therapist or all of the above.

Product Recommendations for Your 32-Month-Old

32-Month-Old Sleep

To nap or not to nap? Most 32-month-olds still need an afternoon nap to help them get through the day. Just make sure it's early enough and short enough that it doesn't interfere with their ability to get sleepy at bedtime.

How much sleep does a 32-month-old need?

Most 2-year-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

32-month-old sleep schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

32-month-old sleep problems

Some 32-month-olds resist nap time, but if your kid still gets grumpy if they don't get daytime rest, then they still need it. Enforce nap time at the same time every afternoon. If your toddler refuses to sleep, you might want to tell them they don't have to, but they do need to stay in their room for a short period of quiet time. Some parents find that their child falls asleep anyhow. Others are just happy to give their tot a short break during the day.

Activities for a 32-Month-Old

For a 32-month-old, playtime equals learning time, so make sure your child has plenty of opportunities to use their imagination and motor skills (away from the tablet or TV screen). So what to do with a 32-month-old? Some fun activities, games and toys for a 32-month-old include:

  • Rhyming. Choose books that rhyme, or sing songs and say nursery rhymes and poems together. This helps your child increase their vocabulary and learn rhythm—not to mention, they're a lot of fun!
  • Pretend play. Thirty-two-month-olds tend to love to dress up in costumes, or mimic their parents by talking into a play phone, wearing your shoes or sweeping the floor.
  • Free play. Structured activities, like a trip to the playground or the aquarium, are certainly fun, but don't feel like your 32-month-old needs to be scheduled every second. Set aside time where your child can bang on pots and pans with wooden spoons, "camp" in a cardboard box, or race their toy cars across the living room floor—whatever it is they want to do.

32-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • This may be the moment you’ve been waiting for, or maybe it’s the one you’re dreading: Potty training. Most kids are ready to begin toilet training sometime between the ages of 2 and 3. If your child can stay dry for a couple of hours, lets you know when their diaper is wet or soiled or shows an interest in using the potty, they're probably ready. Keep the motivation positive and pressure-free. Kids this age learn best by example, so take them into the bathroom with you when you go (if you feel comfortable with that). Even better? Point out older friends or siblings who use the potty, and talk it up!
  • Believe us, you do not want to flush standard baby wipes (unless you really like plunging your toilet). Instead, get your potty-training kid's bum clean with a wipe that clearly says “flushable” on the label.
  • A hectic schedule isn't good for your 32-month-old, and it isn't good for you either. Set aside "me time" to decompress and enjoy some quality time with your family by saying "no" to unnecessary pastimes or activities. And consider hiring a sitter here and there to avoid burnout.
  • As tempting as it may be, avoid putting your 32-month-old baby in front of a tablet or TV screen for extended periods of time. Experts recommend less than one hour of screen time per day for toddlers between the ages of 2 and 3.
  • Physical activity is more important than ever right now. Not only does it help your toddler burn off energy, but it can promote coordination, balance and control of speed. Play a round of “Follow the Leader,” toss a ball around, dance to music and climb on play structures together to keep your kiddo moving.
  • Is your bedtime becoming a daily struggle? Keep things simple. Toddlers love routine, so stick with a simple daily schedule like taking a bath, putting on pajamas and reading a book. A 32-month-old will have an easier time winding down if they know what to expect each evening.
  • Acting out is a common behavior among toddlers at this age, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t address it. Acknowledge your child’s feelings, but don’t condone their behavior or give into their demands. Once your 32-month-old baby realizes they won’t get a rise out of you or achieve their goal, they’ll eventually stop the bad behavior. It might not magically disappear overnight, but remain strong and don’t give in—you’ll eventually notice a difference.
  • If you haven’t already done so, schedule your toddler’s 3-year checkup with their pediatrician.

Between the adventures of potty training and the excitement of watching your 32-month-old make their first friends, this is certainly a memorable stage in your toddler’s life. And before you know it, you’re going to have a 3-year-old running around your home!

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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Your 33-month-old baby is nearing the age of 3, and you can hardly call them a “baby” these days! They’re a walking, talking toddler who’s learning more about the world each day. There’s a good chance your child loves expressing their opinions and independence, which may mean they often don’t listen to you at this stage. Before you fret, just remember that this is all natural for a 33-month-old.

What else can you expect from your toddler at this age? Everything from imaginary friends to potty-training woes. In our guide below, we outline sleep schedules, meal inspiration and some 33-month-old milestones you can watch out for. Follow along so you feel better prepared to take on this next phase with your toddler.

As your 33-month-old grows, they’re also becoming more and more independent.

33-month-old weight and height

Average weight for a 33-month-old is around 29.7 pounds for girls and 30.8 pounds for boys. Average height is around 36.4 inches for girls and 36.8 inches for boys, according to the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

33-month-old milestones

“What should my 33-month-old be doing?” you ask? There are so many exciting 33-month-old milestones to look forward to around this time. Keep an eye on the following:

  • Speech. Thirty-three-month-old language development seems to happen quickly. Kids this old may know around 450 words, and by the time they turn 3 will be saying three- and four-word sentences. They also know and say their first and last name and begin to use the past tense.
  • Self-care. Over the next few months, your child will probably develop the ability to undress and feed themselves.
  • Teething. As your child cuts their last baby teeth—the second molars—they may experience a little pain and drooling and may wake at night or be irritable.
  • Potty training. You may be in full swing of potty training. If your kid is wearing underwear but isn't 100 percent making it to the toilet just yet, going anywhere can feel stressful. Try not to plan long outings for now, and always bring along wipes and a change of clothes just in case.

33-month-old behavior

  • Imaginary friends. Having an imaginary friend is not cause for concern. In fact, having a friend of their own invention helps a child make sense of the world. You can play along, but be careful not to take over your child's pretending.
  • Refusing to listen. Told your 33-month-old not to do that thing? A million times? If they’re doing it anyway, they’re just displaying typical 2-year-old behavior. Make the rules and consequences clear (and age-appropriate), and follow through when your toddler breaks them. It's a long road, but eventually the rules will stick.

Health is always a top concern for parents, and this age is no different. Some common health questions parents of 33-month-olds have are:

  • My 33-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 33-month-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 33-month-old is throwing up. What should I do?
  • My 33-month old has a cough. What should I do?
  • My 33-month-old has a fever. What should I do?

Your 33-month-old's appetite may go through ups and downs. Some days they’re a little vacuum and others, they barely touch their meals. That's okay, as long as the doctor says your toddler’s growth, weight gain and development are on track. Think of their overall nutrition over the course of a week, not just by the day.

How much should my 33-month-old be eating?

Thirty-three-month-olds should continue to eat three meals per day, plus two snacks. Offer your child a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein and dairy—daily. Portion size isn't big at this age: Expect your kid to eat only ¼ to ½ as much as an adult.

A child over two years of age should be drinking 1 percent or skim milk (not whole milk). Try to offer low-fat dairy products too, such as yogurt and cheese. Doctors recommend kids ages one to 3 get 700 mg of calcium per day. Fat should account for less than 30 percent of your toddler's daily calories.

What to feed my 33-month-old

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 2-year-old:

33-month-old feeding schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

33-month-old eating problems

Picky eating can sometimes be remedied with a little creative presentation. Consider cutting sandwiches into cool shapes using a cookie cutter, making funny faces or fun scenes with vegetables, or creating fruit-and-veggie smoothies or ice pops for your child. When they look like playthings, healthy foods might seem more appealing.

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33-Month-Old Sleep

Why is it that parents love to sleep but our kids, who need more of it, seem to hate it? Even if your kid resists, a good night's sleep (and a good nap) are essential for their brain and body.

How much sleep does a 33-month-old need?

Most 33-month-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

33-month-old sleep schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

33-month-old sleep problems

It's common for a 33-month-old to have developed a fear of the dark. Experts advise listening to your child express their fear with empathy and then helping them feel safer. If that means an extra night light or telling them their stuffed T. rex will protect them, so be it.

Activities for a 33-Month-Old

As your child gets older, their play may become more imaginative, and you may notice they’re mature enough for more complex toys and activities. So what to do with a 33-month-old? Some fun activities, games and toys for a 33-month-old include:

  • Counting games and songs. By 33 months, your child probably already has a basic understanding of numbers, but it’s going to take some time for them to master counting. They should be able to count to three. It’s a good idea to count everything you can together to help them build on this skill.
  • Board games. Simple, introductory games like Candy Land, Chutes and Ladders and Memory are good for this age.
  • Interlocking building blocks. If they haven't already, your child is probably ready to graduate from simple wooden blocks to Duplos or Mega Bloks.
  • Collage making. Looking for rainy-day fun? Have your child point out their favorite photos in a few old magazines. Cut them out for your toddler and, together, glue them on paper to create a collage.

33-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • Convincing your toddler to wear—or keep on—a pair of sunglasses may be a struggle. Instead, buy your 33-month-old a wide-brimmed hat (with a chin strap!) that's more likely to stay in place on sunny days.
  • It's okay if your potty-trained child still wears a diaper or nighttime underwear to bed. Some kids learn quickly to stay dry during the night. Others take years to develop the physical readiness to recognize when they have to go during their sleep.
  • By 33 months, most children have their full set of baby teeth, which means if your child hasn’t seen a dentist yet, now’s a good time to schedule an appointment. In the meantime, help your kiddo take care of their teeth. They might want to brush on their own, but your 33-month-old isn’t coordinated enough to do it right, so make sure you get a chance to scrub each tooth surface for them after they take a turn.
  • Toddlers this age love to be helpful (and independent!). Encourage your 33-month-old’s independence and eagerness to help by providing chores and tasks you can do together, such as putting clothes away or picking up toys. This will also help instill the concept of responsibility.
  • As frustrating as it can be, picky eating is not uncommon in 33-month-old babies. Get creative with the kinds of food you serve and make mealtime a fun and engaging activity. Doing so will make it feel more like an event and less like a chore.
  • While your 33-month-old baby may not be ready to understand numbers and letters just yet, that doesn’t mean you can’t start introducing them now. Invest in some colorful letter and number magnets and place them on the fridge to help familiarize your toddler with these concepts.
  • Is your toddler suffering from nightmares? Work on creating a calm and peaceful bedtime routine, and avoid introducing your kiddo to scary stories and TV shows at this age. While a few nightmares here and there are nothing too concerning, speak with your pediatrician if they become a nightly occurrence, as they could be a sign of anxiety or stress.
  • You might be surprised to learn that your 33-month-old has been telling untruths. Don’t worry; your toddler won’t become a pathological liar overnight. Children at this age are simply still figuring out the differences between fact and fantasy. Encourage honesty but be sure to let your toddler have some fun with their imagination.
  • Remember, toddlers need plenty of physical activity. Not only does it help them burn off pent-up energy, but it provides them with an opportunity to work on their strength, endurance, balance and coordination. Head to the playground and allow your little one to let loose.

Can you believe your 33-month-old is almost 3 years old? Time flies when you’re having fun!

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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There’s a lot to keep track of at this stage in your toddler’s life. For instance, are you planning to send your child to school? The best 3-year-old preschools focus on play and socialization; kids learn by exploring and interacting. They also gradually learn how to wait their turn, stand in line and follow rules—essential skills that will help throughout your child’s school career.

In our guide below, we provide advice on everything from 34-month-old milestones to suggested activities. We tackle sleep schedules, typical 34-month-old behavior, meal ideas and more. Whether your toddler has become a hilarious comedian or bossy tyrant seemingly overnight, keep reading for the tips and tricks you need to navigate this exciting—and sometimes challenging—stage.

You'll probably notice your 34-month-old is getting taller and looks less chubby as they near their third birthday.

34-Month-Old Weight & Height

Average weight for a 34-month-old is around 30.1 pounds for girls and 31.1 pounds for boys. Average height is around 36.6 inches for girls and 37.0 inches for boys, according to the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

34-Month-Old Milestones

“What should my 34-month-old be doing?,” you ask? Your toddler is on the go, making major strides in their physical and mental development every day. Keep an eye out, as they’ll soon begin hitting these 34-month-old milestones:

  • Speech. By now, strangers should be able to understand most of the words your child says, which probably totals somewhere between 200 and 450. Your child should be able to follow three- or four-step directions.
  • Motor skills. Around age 3, most kids can walk up and down stairs, jump, do simple puzzles and pedal a tricycle. Whilst walking, they should be swinging their arms opposite of their legs (this is called a synchronous gait).
  • Self-care. Your child is working on learning to undress and feed themselves.
  • Potty training. Some 34-month-olds are fully potty trained, and some won't be ready until they're 3 or 4. If yours is still wearing training pants, there's no need to rush it. Every kid learns at their own pace. But talking up the potty in a positive way and reading children's books about potty training certainly could help.

34-Month-Old Behavior

  • Bossiness. Got a little tyrant at home? Your 34-month-old thinks the world revolves around them—you can't change that just yet. But you can teach them to speak kindly, say please and to not order everyone around.
  • Short attention span. Don't worry too much about ADHD at this age. Two-year-olds are normally pretty distractible and want to follow their own agenda.
  • Sense of humor. Your little one is learning what's funny and what's not, making just about every task a little more entertaining for everyone. Let yourself get a little silly at times too.

Health is always a top concern for parents, and this age is no different. Some common health questions parents of 34-month-olds have are:

  • My 34-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 34-month-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 34-month-old is throwing up. What should I do?
  • My 34-month old has a cough. What should I do?
  • My 34-month-old has a fever. What should I do?

Feeding your child a well-rounded diet full of many nutrients will help fuel your 34-month-old's growth and brain and physical development.

How Much Should My 34-Month-Old Be Eating?

Two-year-olds should continue to eat three meals per day, plus two snacks. Offer your toddler a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein and dairy—daily. Portion size isn't big at this age: Expect your kid to eat only ¼ to ½ as much as an adult.

Your 2-year-old should be drinking 1 percent or skim milk (not whole milk). Try to offer low-fat dairy products too, such as yogurt and cheese. Doctors recommend kids ages one to 3 get 700 mg of calcium per day. Fat should account for less than 30 percent of your toddler's daily calories.

What to Feed My 34-Month-Old

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 2-year-old:

34-Month-Old Feeding Schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

34-Month-Old Eating Problems

It's common for kids this age to overdo it with milk and juice. Because of the calories in these drinks, having too many of them could put a child at risk for obesity. Experts recommend 16 ounces of milk per day and 4 ounces or less of juice per day. And skip the soda.

Product Recommendations for Your 34-Month-Old

34-Month-Old Sleep

Thirty-four-month-olds sure need a lot of sleep, but that doesn't mean they actually want to go to bed.

How Much Sleep Does a 34-Month-Old Need?

Most 2-year-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

34-Month-Old Sleep Schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

Activities for a 34-Month-Old

It's good for a 34-month-old to have a mix of solo play, play with a parent and play with someone their own age.

Wondering what to do with a 34-month-old? Fun activities, games and toys for a 34-month-old include:

  • Drawing. Show your 34-month-old how to draw a circle and see if they can do it. Once they’ve mastered that skill, you can draw faces together and move on to other shapes, too.
  • Puzzles. It's a fun challenge for a 34-month-old to put together simple puzzles.
  • Play dates. As your child becomes more interested in making friends and playing with kids their own age, you'll want to give them opportunities to do that. Kids this age still need help and practice in sharing and taking turns.

34-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • Anticipating a change in routine? Give plenty of advance warning. And be prepared to repeat, “You’re right. Usually we do it that way, but today we’re going to do it this way,” at least two or three dozen times.
  • Your child's screen time should still be limited. Your child learns better through hands-on play, and you simply don't want your kid to get into the bad habit of too much TV or tablet time. Encourage old-school play as much as possible, with small spurts of screen time.
  • If you haven’t already, begin exploring preschool options. Speak with other parents and explore your local schools. But it’s not a necessity to enroll your kid yet if you don’t feel they’re ready. You know best whether or not they are.
  • By the time they’re 34 months old, many toddlers have all—or most of—their baby teeth in place. That means it’s time to schedule a dentist appointment. At this stage, toddlers should start seeing a dentist for cleanings every six months. Even if baby doesn’t have all their teeth yet, it’s a good idea to have a professional check on their progress and ensure everything looks healthy.
  • Toddlers around this age are beginning to grasp spatial concepts, like “on,” “under” and “in.” Practice these with your 34-month-old by encouraging them to put their toy “in” a basket or to place their cup “on” the table. You can gradually start introducing more complex ideas like “next to” or “beside.”
  • Has your 34-month-old baby introduced you to a new imaginary friend? That’s totally normal behavior at this age. These imaginary friends can offer your child comfort and security. Don’t make a big deal out of it. Simply let your toddler enjoy the fantasy. Many children grow out of this phase by the time they turn 6 years old.
  • Continue to encourage your 34-month-old’s imagination. Help them build skyscrapers with building blocks and create masterpieces with Play-Doh. It’s also a great time to begin working on drawing shapes and lines together.
  • If your toddler is beginning to resist naps, it might be time to transition out of them. Do it gradually, and don’t be surprised if you have a cranky toddler on your hands for a bit. To help ease this transition, try moving your child’s bedtime up earlier.
  • Some children begin developing a fear of the dark around this age—and with that may come a fear of monsters too. Work on making bedtime a peaceful experience, provide a stuffed animal for support and security and consider investing in a night light. Be considerate of your toddler’s fears and avoid teasing them about it.

In just two months, you’ll be celebrating your toddler’s third birthday! Where has the time gone? For now, make the most of this age and keep an eye out for all the exciting 34-month-old milestones this month.

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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As your 35-month-old baby nears their third birthday, they’re likely talking a mile a minute and collecting everything they can get their hands on. It’s an exciting time as they continue to learn and grow each day. Along the way, though, you may notice your child developing certain behaviors like choosing a favorite parent or putting off bedtime. Is this normal? And what should you do about it?

In our 35-month-old guide, you’ll find key insights into your toddler’s development, behavior, sleep schedules and meal routines. We also provide a handy checklist to help you stay on track with your toddler’s progress.

Your growing 35-month-old is mastering lots of new skills and getting more independent by the minute.

35-Month-Old Weight & Height

Average weight for a 35-month-old is around 30.4 pounds for girls and 31.4 pounds for boys. Average height is around 36.9 inches for girls and 37.3 inches for boys, according to the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

35-Month-Old Milestones

“What should my 35-month-old be doing?” you ask? Every day is a new adventure with your little one as they hit their 35-month-old milestones. Check out the following milestones they may be achieving this month:

  • Speech. Your child probably says hundreds of words and speaks more clearly than ever before. They’re starting to grasp the different pronouns (he, she, we, it, etc.). What a little smarty-pants!
  • Motor skills. Your 35-month-old child can probably put on at least one piece of clothing, stand on one foot and draw a straight(ish) line. They may now have the coordination required to pedal a tricycle— if not, they might scoot along with their feet on the ground. They'll get it with practice.
  • Potty training. When it comes to potty training, 35-month-olds are a mixed bag. Some are trained, some are in the process and some aren't quite ready yet. If your child is resisting the potty, avoid the urge to put on the pressure. While you may be in a hurry to ditch the diapers, pressing could actually cause more harm than good. It may benefit everyone to put a pause on potty training for a few weeks before trying again.

35-Month-Old Behavior

  • Independence. You may be able to (finally!) convince your child to play on their own for short stretches, which could feel a bit freeing for you.
  • Playing favorites. Your child may be acting as if they like you better than their other parent or vice versa. Don’t get offended—it's just a phase, and the roles will reverse at some point.

Health is always a top concern for parents, and this age is no different. Some common health questions parents of 35-month-olds have are:

  • My 35-month-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 35-month-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 35-month-old is throwing up. What should I do?
  • My 35-month old has a cough. What should I do?
  • My 35-month-old has a fever. What should I do?

The biggest thing to remember when feeding your 35-month-old is that they’re probably the best judge of their appetite. And they need to eat a variety of healthy foods, just like you do. Salty and sugary snacks should be saved for special occasions.

How Much Should My 35-Month-Old Be Eating?

Two-year-olds should continue to eat three meals per day, plus two snacks. Offer your child a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein and dairy—daily. Portion size isn't big at this age: Expect your kid to eat only ¼ to ½ as much as an adult.

Your 2-year-old should be drinking 1 percent or skim milk (not whole milk). Try to offer low-fat dairy products too, such as yogurt and cheese. Doctors recommend kids ages one to 3 get 700 mg of calcium per day. Fat should account for less than 30 percent of your toddler's daily calories.

What to Feed My 35-Month-Old

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 2-year-old:

35-Month-Old Feeding Schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

35-Month-Old Eating Problems

Mealtime with a 35-month-old can easily become a power struggle—don't let it! Offer nutritious food and keep serving small amounts of new foods. But don't force your child to eat or expect them to love anything you give them. Even if your toddler was crazy about it yesterday. And remember, it can take up to 20 instances of exposure to a food before a child develops a liking for it.

Product Recommendations for Your 35-Month-Old

35-Month-Old Sleep

You may notice your 35-month-old is starting to sleep a little less during their daytime nap. That's totally normal. Most kids this age do still need a nap but may be gradually and naturally weaning themselves off them.

How Much Sleep Does a 35-Month-Old Need?

Most 2-year-olds need around 11 to 12 hours of nighttime sleep, plus a nap of about 1.5 to 3 hours, for a total of about 13 to 14 hours of sleep per day.

35-Month-Old Sleep Schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

Image: Smart Up Visuals

35-Month-Old Sleep Problems

It's common for 35-month-olds to try to put off bedtime as long as possible. While it's sometimes adorable that your child wants you to read five more stories and give you 10 more kisses, it's also exhausting. To avoid letting it get out of control, stay calm and remind them of the bedtime routine. Set limits on just how many times you come back to their bedroom and how many extra little things you'll do for your child before they finally go to sleep.

Activities for a 35-Month-Old

Give your 35-month-old plenty of time to play freely and to play outside. Play helps them learn and keeps their body active and healthy.

Wondering what to do with a 35-month-old? Fun activities, games and toys for a 35-month-old are:

  • Tricycle. Your 35-month-old will soon be developmentally ready to master pedaling a tricycle, if they haven’t already. And yes, it's important that they wear a helmet while riding, even though they seem so close to the ground.
  • Collecting. Kids this age love to collect acorns, pine cones, rocks, action figures…you name it. This is a fun activity to do together and can help your 35-month-old learn about the world around them and practice sorting and organization. If it's something low-cost or free, even better!
  • Pretend play. Playing house, school, grocery store or kitchen helps 35-month-olds understand different roles and can help them develop emotionally.

35-Month-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • Handle weird phases (like barking like a dog!) like they’re no big deal, so long as they don’t interfere with normal activities. Just explain that it’s a thing they can do at some times but can’t at others. And get it on video, of course.
  • Going to the grocery store or a Target run with your 35-month-old can be an ordeal. They want every cool-looking thing they see! And as much as you want to make your kiddo happy, saying no can set the precedent that they won't get everything they whine or beg for.
  • Remember: Next month is your child's 3-year-checkup. Call the doctor and make an appointment if you didn't at your last visit.
  • Don’t freak out if you catch your child lying—it doesn't mean they’re destined for a life of crime. A child’s first lie is actually a significant developmental milestone. To lie, a child needs good verbal skills, plus enough imagination to be able to invent an alternate reality. They probably get that telling the truth would disappoint someone, which shows an understanding of expectations and emotions. So instead of punishing your child for lying, try gently confronting them with the truth. (“I see cookie crumbs on your face,” for instance.) Talk briefly about the importance of telling the truth, but don’t lecture your toddler too much.
  • Now more than ever, you might be tempted to place your 35-month-old baby in front of a screen to watch shows or play games. However, experts recommend no more than one hour of screen time a day for toddlers. Remember, screen time involves viewing content on tablets and smartphones too, not just television screens.
  • Your 35-month-old has a special birthday coming up! If you’re planning a third birthday party where other children are invited, be sure to consider all the safety elements. Host the party at a toddler-proof location and serve child-friendly food that doesn’t pose any choking hazards.
  • It’s never too soon to start introducing letters and numbers to a 35-month-old. When reading books together, point out letters and words and encourage your toddler to count the animals on each page. You can also invest in magnetic letters and numbers for the fridge or foam versions for bathtime.
  • While it can be difficult saying no to a 35-month-old toddler, it must be done. Toddlers need to learn that they cannot get their way all the time, especially when they employ crying and whining. The good news? Telling your child no can help them develop self-control and patience.
  • Are you and your partner disagreeing on certain aspects of raising your toddler? It’s understandable not to be aligned on everything, but it’s important to talk through these issues and find a compromise. Also, be sure to create a united front when addressing your toddler so you’re not creating a confusing environment for them.

Your toddler is likely hitting their 35-month-old milestones left and right. You twoo have had quite the adventure together so far, and you have many more milestones to look forward to in the near future.

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.


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Wow, your child is 3! Three-year-olds want to know how everything works and aren’t afraid to ask questions. That doesn't mean you need to have all the answers, though. You and your child can have a lot of fun simply pondering and exploring their curiosities together. So when your child asks something like, “Why is the sky blue?” try saying, “I don’t know. What do you think?” before launching into a scientific explanation. If they’re asking lots of questions about a specific topic and you don't know the answers, head to the library and find a children's book about it that you can read together.

You may experience a wide range of behaviors from your 36-month-old baby. You might notice they’re throwing daily tantrums or getting out of bed every night. These are common behaviors for a 36-month-old, as they’re still developing and learning how to interact with the world. To help guide you through this uncharted territory, we’ve listed some helpful tips and tricks for everything from suggested feeding schedules to which 36-month-old milestones to keep an eye on. Follow along for advice on what you might experience and what you can expect when your child turns 3 years old.

Age 3 is time for a thorough checkup with the pediatrician to make sure your child's growth and development are on track.

3-Year-Old Weight & Height

Average weight for a 36-month-old is around 30.7 pounds for girls and 31.8 pounds for boys. Average height is around 37.1 inches for girls and 37.5 inches for boys, according to the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

At your child's checkup, the doctor will plot their weight and height on a 3-year-old growth chart. The chart shows a child's measurements at each visit, as well as a curve of average growth for each weight and height percentile. This will help the doctor confirm your child is growing at a healthy rate.

3-Year-Old Milestones

“What should my 36-month-old be doing?” you ask? Between stringing together multi-word phrases to mastering potty training, here are some 36-month-old milestones you can expect in the coming weeks (if your toddler hasn’t already hit them).

  • Speech. Most likely, your 3-year-old is talking like crazy. They’re probably using three- or even four-word sentences (“Go outside now!”) and saying a variety of words. In fact, it's normal for a 3-year-old to have a vocabulary of about 500 words. (And “why” might just be their favorite.) If your 3-year-old is stuttering, mispronounces words or is using improper grammar, it's probably not cause for concern. They’re still learning proper speech. Still, you should bring up any worries to the doctor, so they can keep tabs.
  • Motor skills. Your 3-year-old should be climbing and running with ease. They can probably walk up and down stairs one foot per step without using a railing and balance on one foot for about three seconds Your toddler should also be able to pedal a tricycle.
  • Potty training. Potty training a 3-year-old is quite an accomplishment. You might find that even if your kid stays dry during the day, nighttime is a different story. Bed-wetting is not a concern at this age. In fact, some kids continue to wet the bed up to age 7. (That's what they make nighttime training pants for.)

Worried your child's development isn't on track? The CDC publishes a 36-month-old developmental checklist you can go over to see if your child is on par with their peers. At the three-year checkup, the pediatrician should ask you a series of questions that will help determine whether your child might be delayed or need a little extra help developmentally. This is where you can bring up any concerns you may have, such as signs of autism in a 3-year-old.

3-Year-Old Behavior

  • Meltdowns and tantrums. A 3-year-old may have a good idea of what they want to do—like build a giant block tower—but doesn’t always have the physical skills or ability to make it turn out as well as they’d hoped. That may mean frustration and tears. Sure, you're officially out of the terrible twos, but you're not quite out of tantrum territory yet.
  • Separation anxiety. A 3-year-old with separation anxiety may turn drop-offs at Grandma's house or at school into a whole lot of drama. Sure, they may be making you feel guilty, but your child will never get over it if you keep them close at all times. Keep goodbyes short and sweet. Remind your child what time you'll be back and what you'll do together. And try not to linger before you go.
  • Other 3-year-old behavioral issues. In an informal poll, most parents we talked to said age 3 was more terrible than 2. It's not surprising to hear of a 3-year-old biting, running away from their parents in public and otherwise breaking the rules we thought they'd get by now. How to get a 3-year-old to listen? Remember: It's all a process. Disciplining a 3-year-old doesn't mean getting angry; it means setting clear rules and age-appropriate consequences.

Health is always a top concern for parents, and this age is no different. Some common health questions parents of 36-month-olds have are:

  • My 3-year-old has diarrhea. What should I do?
  • My 3-year-old is constipated. What should I do?
  • My 3-year-old is throwing up. What should I do?
  • My 3-year-old has a cough. What should I do?
  • My 3-year-old has a fever. What should I do?

Ideal nutrition for a 3-year-old is pretty similar to ideal nutrition for the rest of the family, just in smaller portions.

How Much Should My 3-Year-Old Be Eating?

Three-year-olds should continue to eat three meals per day, plus two snacks. Offer them a variety of foods in all food groups—vegetables, fruits, grains, protein and dairy—daily. Focus on foods with high nutritional value and try to avoid junk foods and sugary drinks as much as possible.

How Many Calories Does a 3-Year-Old Need?

Doctors recommend about 1,000 calories per day for 2- and 3-year-olds, but you shouldn't have to count. Your child is a good judge of their own appetite, and during times of extra exercise or a growth spurt, they may be hungrier and need more calories than at other times. Instead, consider that your child should be having approximately 1 cup of fruit, 1 cup of vegetables, 3 ounces of grains, 2 ounces of protein and about 2 cups of dairy each day.

How Much Milk Should a 3-Year-Old Drink?

If they’re not getting dairy elsewhere in their diet, make it two cups. But if your kiddo is eating lots of yogurt and cheese, for example, or if you're breastfeeding your 3-year-old, they may need to drink less milk. Talk to the pediatrician for a personalized recommendation.

What to Feed My 36-Month-Old

Looking for some tasty and nutritious meal inspiration? Check out these food ideas for a 3-year-old:

36-Month-Old Feeding Schedule

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

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Product Recommendations for Your 36-Month-Old

3-Year-Old Sleep

Bedtime for a 3-year-old might be a struggle. Stick to the routine—and stick to your guns. When you say “One more song,” really just sing one more song and say goodnight.

How Much Sleep Does a 3-Year-Old Need?

Most 3-year-olds need around 10 to 13 hours of sleep total, including both daytime and nighttime sleep. At this age, some kids are still napping for an hour or two in the afternoon and others are willfully ditching naps altogether. So adjust your child's schedule accordingly. For example, if your 36-month-old isn’t napping, move their bedtime a little earlier. And if they are napping, don't let them snooze so long or so late in the afternoon that it interferes with their ability to fall asleep at night.

36-Month-Old Sleep Schedule

Every kid is different, but your child's schedule may look something like this:

What can an 18-month-old do?
What can an 18-month-old do?

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3-Year-Old Sleep Problems

Sleep regression is common at this age. For a 3-year-old who’s waking up at night, experts recommend short and businesslike visits. In other words, comfort them if they’ve had a bad dream or bring them water if they’re thirsty, but don't linger long. Kiss your toddler goodnight and exit the room. If your 3-year-old won't stay in bed, experts say you should always lead them back to their own bed if you want them to break the habit.

At 3 years old, night terrors can wreak havoc on families' nights. During a night terror, a child may begin crying, screaming, sitting up, walking or flailing. They may seem to talk, but they’re not awake. Thankfully, these episodes are more upsetting to you than they are to a child—they tend to not remember it happening the next day. This happens as kids transition from a deep sleep phase to a lighter one. If your child gets night terrors, don't try to wake them, just keep them safe, try to calm them and put them back to bed. Your child will eventually grow out of them.

Activities for 3-Year-Olds

As your 3-year-old gets more and more creative and expressive, they’re also learning some important facts that will help them get ready for school.

What to do with a 3-year-old? Fun activities, games and educational toys for 3-year-olds are:

  • Colorful toys. Your child is learning their colors. Play together with colored blocks, balls or Play-Doh, and talk about the different colors. You can sort the blocks or balls by color too.
  • Crayons and nontoxic paints. Your little Picasso is probably starting to take pride in creating some pretty artwork. Remember to hang a few faves on the fridge or corkboard.
  • Songs. Keep singing simple songs with your kid. Three-year-olds love singing almost as much as they love to talk.

3-Year-Old Baby Checklist and Tips

  • Take your child to their 3-year checkup.
  • For a 3-year-old, shots aren't typically necessary, but you may choose to have your child get the flu vaccine at this appointment.
  • Plan to take your child for their next checkup around their fourth birthday. For the rest of their childhood, well visits should happen annually.
  • If you'd like your child to start school this year, sign them up for 3-year-old preschool, if you haven't already.
  • Take a trip to the library for some new books with a fresh perspective—and that answer some of your 3-year-old’s most probing questions.
  • It's rare (but not totally impossible) to find a 3-year-old reading. Still, you may notice your child starting to recognize symbols and signs and know that they say "stop" or "open" when they see them. This means the ability to read is emerging. Get into the habit of reading together every day to encourage your child’s reading process.
  • Toddlers at the 36-month-old mark tend to start showing interest in playing with other children. Enroll your toddler in playgroups or host playdates to encourage social interaction with children their age.
  • While many 36-month-old babies are speaking full sentences at this stage, they’re bound to make mistakes here and there. Instead of pointing out these mistakes when they happen, simply repeat the corrected sentence or word back to your toddler. This helps them catch on without causing unnecessary frustration or embarrassment.
  • A 36-month-old can seem like a big kid at times, but that doesn’t mean they should experience as much screen time as an older child. Experts recommend limiting screen time on tablets, smartphones and TVs to less than one hour a day.
  • Is your toddler afraid of the dark? Don’t worry; this is totally normal for a 36-month-old. To help mitigate the problem, acknowledge your little one’s fears and provide comfort and reassurance. Create a relaxing bedtime routine, give them a security option like a stuffed bear and invest in a small night light. You can even play in the dark with glow-in-the-dark toys to help calm their fears.
  • As tempting as it may be to instruct a wiggly 36-month-old baby to sit still, it’s best to let toddlers burn off that excess energy. Children develop coordination and balance by running around and climbing on everything. Schedule plenty of outside time to help your child explore their physical skills.

A 36-month-old baby is like a sponge, learning new things about life every day. During this next year, you’ll see your child’s imagination expand as they process new information and come up with questions every other minute. Be patient and encourage their sense of wonder. As you know, time flies, so be sure to embrace these exciting moments with your toddler.

Medical content was reviewed by Alexis Phillips-Walker, DO, a pediatrician at Memorial Hermann Medical Group Pediatrics in Atascocita, Texas.